Don't Google It

I also I mean, this is like my privilege as someone who's invited to go on to podcasts.

But like, I don't remember the last time I commented on something on the Internet.

I like wrote about commenting on some things on Reddit anonymously in my book.

And that's probably the last time that I did that, like during my pregnancy, where I was just like, I need to say something to this anonymous person that I must express.

And I feel like at peace that I haven't had that urge in a long time.

Really? Are

you you are offline in terms of any parenting spaces online currently? Or what what do you take part in?

The thing is, I've had a I think my life would be better if I just got off Instagram.

And I can't I've been like unable to I've set up all of these various strategies to try to do that.

And I keep going back to it.

And it's always there's always a part of me that's oh, I should, you know, promote my book or something, but that's not really it.

I think I'm just A, addicted to it, and B, my social life is too embedded in it.

You know, I would need to transfer all of these acquaintance-to-friend relationships to text or whatever before I got rid of it.

But I mean, the worst thing is that that means that I'm then served all of this content.

And even though I go in and delete my...

All of this stuff in my algorithm, it learns, it just knows immediately again because it's just feeding on the same data that I have kids, that I have had medical experiences with kids.

Anything that they know, I'm just, I'm going to watch.

And maybe watch again.

But I've started to try to train my algorithm to think that I am a lesbian, which has been really great for the content.

Just watching gay content, watching the reel over again, liking, sharing.

They say you're

building it brick by brick, but like you're in an interventionist way.

Like, no, no, no, we're going this way.

Yeah.

That's smart.

I also I mean, this is like my privilege as someone who's invited to go on to podcasts.

But like, I don't remember the last time I commented on something on the Internet.

I like wrote about commenting on some things on Reddit anonymously in my book.

And that's probably the last time that I did that, like during my pregnancy, where I was just like, I need to say something to this anonymous person that I must express.

And I feel like at peace that I haven't had that urge in a long time.

Really? Are

you you are offline in terms of any parenting spaces online currently? Or what what do you take part in?

The thing is, I've had a I think my life would be better if I just got off Instagram.

And I can't I've been like unable to I've set up all of these various strategies to try to do that.

And I keep going back to it.

And it's always there's always a part of me that's oh, I should, you know, promote my book or something, but that's not really it.

I think I'm just A, addicted to it, and B, my social life is too embedded in it.

You know, I would need to transfer all of these acquaintance-to-friend relationships to text or whatever before I got rid of it.

But I mean, the worst thing is that that means that I'm then served all of this content.

And even though I go in and delete my...

All of this stuff in my algorithm, it learns, it just knows immediately again because it's just feeding on the same data that I have kids, that I have had medical experiences with kids.

Anything that they know, I'm just, I'm going to watch.

And maybe watch again.

But I've started to try to train my algorithm to think that I am a lesbian, which has been really great for the content.

Just watching gay content, watching the reel over again, liking, sharing.

They say you're

building it brick by brick, but like you're in an interventionist way.

Like, no, no, no, we're going this way.

Yeah.

That's smart.