Aug 5, 2026 · 1 hr 21 min · 19 segments
**About the Guest** Kara Powell leads the Fuller Youth Institute as its Executive Director, where for more than twenty years her team has tracked how young people are changing across three…
Kara PowellGuest
John OrtbergHost
If there's one thing that you'd want anybody who's listening to you to come away with, it is that young people want to be listened to, they want to be understood, but without being judged.

Well, I think developmentally, this is not the first generation of teenagers and young adults to feel that way, to want to be listened to.

But I think we as adults, we've been especially critical of young people now and in the recent past.

There was a lot of criticism about Gen Z, millennials, how lazy, entitled they were, etc.

So I think young people feel like adults and even the church has been finger-pointing at them.


And we've asked them, what do you most want in an adult you trust? And what do you most want in the faith community? And at the top of the list is we want adults who will listen without judging.

So, I think young people feel so judged in so many other spheres that they're just hungry for that in general.

I mean, we have the chance to, I would say, earn back young people's trust by how we listen to them.

Is there something around being young and generational differences that feeds into that? Or is that just a reflection of the fact that as sinful people we are so judgmental and people in power can be most judgmental and people who are young don't have it?

I mean, I think it's everything that you've just said, but I think as the pace of change and cultural change accelerates, it gets harder for us as adults to keep up with youth culture, which I think makes us even more, makes me more prone to be judgmental because I don't understand it.

If there's one thing that you'd want anybody who's listening to you to come away with, it is that young people want to be listened to, they want to be understood, but without being judged.

Well, I think developmentally, this is not the first generation of teenagers and young adults to feel that way, to want to be listened to.

But I think we as adults, we've been especially critical of young people now and in the recent past.

There was a lot of criticism about Gen Z, millennials, how lazy, entitled they were, etc.

So I think young people feel like adults and even the church has been finger-pointing at them.


And we've asked them, what do you most want in an adult you trust? And what do you most want in the faith community? And at the top of the list is we want adults who will listen without judging.

So, I think young people feel so judged in so many other spheres that they're just hungry for that in general.

I mean, we have the chance to, I would say, earn back young people's trust by how we listen to them.

Is there something around being young and generational differences that feeds into that? Or is that just a reflection of the fact that as sinful people we are so judgmental and people in power can be most judgmental and people who are young don't have it?

I mean, I think it's everything that you've just said, but I think as the pace of change and cultural change accelerates, it gets harder for us as adults to keep up with youth culture, which I think makes us even more, makes me more prone to be judgmental because I don't understand it.
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