I'm Not Sure I Support My Friend's Engagement

Here we go.

Hello, Brett and Sally.

And Randy.

was invited to my co-workers out of state wedding we all work remotely across the midwest and i'm on the fence about going i love her and i would love to go but i'm worried about the reciprocal invite as i'm getting married this upcoming spring i have a lot of co-workers that might get butt hurt if i only invite a select few originally the fiance and i weren't going to go because of financial reasons but it's about a seven hour drive and there are some affordable hotel options I did this question more for the reciprocal wedding piece of it.

Right.

This was my one question about...

This is going to probably change my answer, I would say.

Is he worried,

he or she? He or she.

I don't know.

I don't think there's a...

Okay.

Identifier.

Either way.

Are they worried about the fact that they're going to this girl's wedding and they're not going to invite her to their wedding?

Sounds like she wasn't going to be an invite and they're like, well, now we

got it.

Or they're going to go and see a bunch of coworkers because they're all remote and they don't like see each other in person.

Then they're like, well, we had this wedding together and then now I feel like I got to invite all of you to my wedding.

At least more the former.

Okay.

Okay.

So yeah, I guess the question I see why Sally's getting confused because I have a lot of coworkers that might get butthurt if I only invite a select few.

So are you kind of like thinking about not inviting any of them?

Well, here's what I think.