Feb 23, 2026 · 1 hr 38 min · 16 segments
“Grief happens because you don't stop loving the person who died. The person doesn't exist in your reality anymore. The everyday is not colored and shaped by this other human being, but you don't stop…
Mia FunkHost
it's awkward to ask about but you say about not that one causes the other but in individuals who are sensitive you know the emotional weight of that whether it can
cause a decline or of course well I mean this is as I point out in the book it's scientifically unproven but we do know that at some point, especially with a malignant tumor, the immune system ceases to recognize it.
Exactly how it happens, of course, is mysterious, just as there's no cure for cancer.
But the model in Western medicine, which is the biomedical model, has a tendency to ignore the social circumstances and personal histories of the patients.
Saying that it played a role, I mean, the man smoked for many years, and we know that lung cancer is strongly correlated with smoking.
Nevertheless, I'm convinced, not only because of my experience with Paul, but in my general reading, that questions of a person's life play a significant role in illness too.

Yeah, and I'm wondering, it's definitely, it's just something you can't quantify, but it's all these things.

so much of the real life, like what you're writing about in this book, so much of those mysterious spaces, so much of what animates us and makes us individuals, that's all those spaces in between.

it's awkward to ask about but you say about not that one causes the other but in individuals who are sensitive you know the emotional weight of that whether it can
cause a decline or of course well I mean this is as I point out in the book it's scientifically unproven but we do know that at some point, especially with a malignant tumor, the immune system ceases to recognize it.
Exactly how it happens, of course, is mysterious, just as there's no cure for cancer.
But the model in Western medicine, which is the biomedical model, has a tendency to ignore the social circumstances and personal histories of the patients.
Saying that it played a role, I mean, the man smoked for many years, and we know that lung cancer is strongly correlated with smoking.
Nevertheless, I'm convinced, not only because of my experience with Paul, but in my general reading, that questions of a person's life play a significant role in illness too.

Yeah, and I'm wondering, it's definitely, it's just something you can't quantify, but it's all these things.

so much of the real life, like what you're writing about in this book, so much of those mysterious spaces, so much of what animates us and makes us individuals, that's all those spaces in between.
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