The Love Drive with Shaun Galanos
Jul 16, 2026 · 1 hr 14 min · 17 segments
The manosphere thinks going down on a woman is gay, submissive, or a low-return waste of time. It's wrong on all three — so I brought in an expert to help me prove it. In this crossover episode…
Shaun GalanosHost
But it is tricky because I think what happens is that men who don't know how to connect with women or who have been ridiculed in some way feel a part of or feel like they'll never have success with women find these guys.
And these guys say, "Well, here's a way that you can belong." Right? "You'll get strong.
You don't need women." I think what's happening is that they're convinced or being convinced that women are the problem.
Also, women are just there to, to like serve as a tool for you at, at some time, but there's, you know, it's, it's like you're not, you're not opening up to deep connection.
There's no reciprocal g- like giving and sharing and then, you know, the conversat-...
Like one of the things I heard was someone asking someone in a interview, like one of the dudes, it was like, "How, how...
Do you feel like it's important to give women orgasms?" And he was like, "No, the...
It's just..." And they said, "Why?" He said, "Because there's a low ROI." Like it's a business arrangement or something.
Like, if you're giving someone, and also speak as a pussy person, you know, as someone going down on me and pleasuring me gives me a lot of pleasure, you're gonna likely get a lot back from me.
but, like, what it can do to a relationship, right? Like closeness, intimacy, trust, safety, satisfaction, fulfillment.
Like, we're not saying that, like, orgasms are, like, the, the key to a happy relationship, but, like, sexual satisfaction is really important for a lot of people, and orgasms can contribute to sexual satisfaction.
But it is tricky because I think what happens is that men who don't know how to connect with women or who have been ridiculed in some way feel a part of or feel like they'll never have success with women find these guys.
And these guys say, "Well, here's a way that you can belong." Right? "You'll get strong.
You don't need women." I think what's happening is that they're convinced or being convinced that women are the problem.
Also, women are just there to, to like serve as a tool for you at, at some time, but there's, you know, it's, it's like you're not, you're not opening up to deep connection.
There's no reciprocal g- like giving and sharing and then, you know, the conversat-...
Like one of the things I heard was someone asking someone in a interview, like one of the dudes, it was like, "How, how...
Do you feel like it's important to give women orgasms?" And he was like, "No, the...
It's just..." And they said, "Why?" He said, "Because there's a low ROI." Like it's a business arrangement or something.
Like, if you're giving someone, and also speak as a pussy person, you know, as someone going down on me and pleasuring me gives me a lot of pleasure, you're gonna likely get a lot back from me.
but, like, what it can do to a relationship, right? Like closeness, intimacy, trust, safety, satisfaction, fulfillment.
Like, we're not saying that, like, orgasms are, like, the, the key to a happy relationship, but, like, sexual satisfaction is really important for a lot of people, and orgasms can contribute to sexual satisfaction.
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