Joanne SprottHostJean Hamilton-FfordHost
Um, I'm introducing the topic of listening, which often is challenging for, uh, people, and I am one of those who gets challenged to, to listen appropriately depending on who I'm with.

I also understand the power of listening, which is something that we need to, we need to cover too because there's an energetic component to it when you're in the room with someone and you're listening that's in addition to the words, and there are also things like the, uh, non-visual, um, cue, or non-verbal cues that both the listener and the person who's talking are using.

And all of these things, being conscious of these things from what I understand is really helpful in having a, a high quality conversation.

Whether you're just trying to support somebody emotionally or you're in business and you're trying to work out, work through a problem or create something, all of those places you can use these listening skills to enhance the situation, to make the, the, the, the project go, to get decisions out of people who need to, to decide besides you.

Uh, there are all kinds of, uh, contexts a- is what I'm finding, uh, with, uh, with listening.

And I'm really looking forward to having Colin's point of view because this is what he does.

So Colin, what, what do you think is the most important kind of emotional place to be when you get into conversation with someone and you wanna do a good job of listening?
I need to deal with before I meet this person? In which case, let's just deal with that and then put them aside, because at the moment of meeting that person, I want to feel that this person is the most important person in my life at this moment.
And so if I can suspend everything around me and we just sit in this, this, this little bubble, or in, in virtual terms, I'm welcoming you both into the, the room that I'm in now.
So I think out of all of the things that we could do, being present, arriving present, is, is I think the most important part.

Oh, do you have a process that you go through to, say, I don't know, empty mind or, mm, to, to get into that space where, where you, you feel comfortable in that container as a, as a listener for the other person?

Um, I'm introducing the topic of listening, which often is challenging for, uh, people, and I am one of those who gets challenged to, to listen appropriately depending on who I'm with.

I also understand the power of listening, which is something that we need to, we need to cover too because there's an energetic component to it when you're in the room with someone and you're listening that's in addition to the words, and there are also things like the, uh, non-visual, um, cue, or non-verbal cues that both the listener and the person who's talking are using.

And all of these things, being conscious of these things from what I understand is really helpful in having a, a high quality conversation.

Whether you're just trying to support somebody emotionally or you're in business and you're trying to work out, work through a problem or create something, all of those places you can use these listening skills to enhance the situation, to make the, the, the, the project go, to get decisions out of people who need to, to decide besides you.

Uh, there are all kinds of, uh, contexts a- is what I'm finding, uh, with, uh, with listening.

And I'm really looking forward to having Colin's point of view because this is what he does.

So Colin, what, what do you think is the most important kind of emotional place to be when you get into conversation with someone and you wanna do a good job of listening?
I need to deal with before I meet this person? In which case, let's just deal with that and then put them aside, because at the moment of meeting that person, I want to feel that this person is the most important person in my life at this moment.
And so if I can suspend everything around me and we just sit in this, this, this little bubble, or in, in virtual terms, I'm welcoming you both into the, the room that I'm in now.
So I think out of all of the things that we could do, being present, arriving present, is, is I think the most important part.

Oh, do you have a process that you go through to, say, I don't know, empty mind or, mm, to, to get into that space where, where you, you feel comfortable in that container as a, as a listener for the other person?
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