Sep 27, 2026 · 1 hr 20 min · 17 segments
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Eric SkwarczynskiHostErica SmithGuestI sat in a guest teaching at church years ago spewing that garbage about the way to connect with my husband is through sex.
It made me feel like a blow-up doll because I never got the emotional connection in return.
Yes, because the messaging that the way to connect with your husband is through sex, there's never any agency of the female partner and there's never any, do you want to be having sex? Is the sex good for you? What are you getting out of this? It's always presented as, again, like she said, I felt like a blow up doll and you are an object in that scenario.
The other one that came in said, I love a lot of what you're discussing, but you kind of lost me on the issue of pornography.
The talking points Erica lists around this topic should alone show why it's harmful, such as consent cannot be proven.
It depicts violence consistently and is usually against women, partner harm or betrayal, trauma, fetishizes certain types of people, et cetera, et cetera.
And then the longer comment talked about how there's a certain, uh, I thought I'd screenshot the whole one, but it talked about how these different councils were trying to form to make it a clinical diagnosis when it comes to addiction and things like that.
I know you've talked about this before on the show, but it seems to be something that comes up every time I have you on.
Even when I announce you're coming on as a guest, people go, oh, that's the lady that loves porn and thinks everyone should watch it.
Can you just respond to kind of the controversy that pops up? And again, you have to spend a lot of time on it because I know it comes up
I do not consider pornography viewing as inherently harmful across the board for all people, but there is a big, but there, um, the woman who commented said, I can't
The woman who commented said that my talking points about why it was harmful should be the end of the discussion.
I sat in a guest teaching at church years ago spewing that garbage about the way to connect with my husband is through sex.
It made me feel like a blow-up doll because I never got the emotional connection in return.
Yes, because the messaging that the way to connect with your husband is through sex, there's never any agency of the female partner and there's never any, do you want to be having sex? Is the sex good for you? What are you getting out of this? It's always presented as, again, like she said, I felt like a blow up doll and you are an object in that scenario.
The other one that came in said, I love a lot of what you're discussing, but you kind of lost me on the issue of pornography.
The talking points Erica lists around this topic should alone show why it's harmful, such as consent cannot be proven.
It depicts violence consistently and is usually against women, partner harm or betrayal, trauma, fetishizes certain types of people, et cetera, et cetera.
And then the longer comment talked about how there's a certain, uh, I thought I'd screenshot the whole one, but it talked about how these different councils were trying to form to make it a clinical diagnosis when it comes to addiction and things like that.
I know you've talked about this before on the show, but it seems to be something that comes up every time I have you on.
Even when I announce you're coming on as a guest, people go, oh, that's the lady that loves porn and thinks everyone should watch it.
Can you just respond to kind of the controversy that pops up? And again, you have to spend a lot of time on it because I know it comes up
I do not consider pornography viewing as inherently harmful across the board for all people, but there is a big, but there, um, the woman who commented said, I can't
The woman who commented said that my talking points about why it was harmful should be the end of the discussion.
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