The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Sep 11, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min · 12 segments
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So in your relationship, who drives this sexual naughtiness? Is it from you, Krista?
Chad would like to say it's him, but I think it's me.
What would you like to say, Chad? We'll let you answer that one, too.
I think we're both driving, but definitely she gets the driver's seat a little bit more often.
And I guess she gets to put her foot on the pedal to go or stop, right? That's because the lifestyle is all about the woman's pleasure.
It is, and that's
part of it, right? is definitely, it comes off a little weird if the guy is maybe a little too pushy.
There's two myths
we need to bust right here because it's the perfect time.
First myth is on any lifestyle vacation, Hedo, Desire, Cap Dag, Bliss Cruise, 50% of the people don't play.
They don't swap their partners.
They don't play.
They're
here for a good, sexy, fun time.
And number two, in the majority of strong alternative lifestyle relationships, it is the woman who drives.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
And that myth out there that it's the man pushing the woman to do stuff she doesn't want to do.
We've seen like so rarely where it's like that.
It's the woman who has learned how to say yes to great sex and say, I want this.
I want to have good sex.
And I'm sure, Krista, you know, you came from that repressed.
This is how you have to.
lead your life and have sex and have kids and you don't have sex for pleasure you have sex for procreation and now you found this lifestyle and you get you get to choose as a woman you get to choose what you want
and express yourself which of course you won't wouldn't have done a
So in your relationship, who drives this sexual naughtiness? Is it from you, Krista?
Chad would like to say it's him, but I think it's me.
What would you like to say, Chad? We'll let you answer that one, too.
I think we're both driving, but definitely she gets the driver's seat a little bit more often.
And I guess she gets to put her foot on the pedal to go or stop, right? That's because the lifestyle is all about the woman's pleasure.
It is, and that's
part of it, right? is definitely, it comes off a little weird if the guy is maybe a little too pushy.
There's two myths
we need to bust right here because it's the perfect time.
First myth is on any lifestyle vacation, Hedo, Desire, Cap Dag, Bliss Cruise, 50% of the people don't play.
They don't swap their partners.
They don't play.
They're
here for a good, sexy, fun time.
And number two, in the majority of strong alternative lifestyle relationships, it is the woman who drives.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
And that myth out there that it's the man pushing the woman to do stuff she doesn't want to do.
We've seen like so rarely where it's like that.
It's the woman who has learned how to say yes to great sex and say, I want this.
I want to have good sex.
And I'm sure, Krista, you know, you came from that repressed.
This is how you have to.
lead your life and have sex and have kids and you don't have sex for pleasure you have sex for procreation and now you found this lifestyle and you get you get to choose as a woman you get to choose what you want
and express yourself which of course you won't wouldn't have done a
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