The Lost Art of Erotism Part 2 | Season 3 | Episode 8 | E51

You know, you said how to want again.

Is that what you said? Um, I.

My older sister, as you know.

She's like pretty practical.

Which older sister? True.

Good point.

My oldest sister.

They're both very practical.

Perhaps I'm the most frivolous, which is the privilege of being the youngest.

And that's like saying a lot because I wouldn't say you're like overly frivolous.

Some might say I'm a bit Spartan, but I do like things.

But my oldest in particular, I will ask her, what's on your wish list? Like when her birthday is coming up and she's like, I don't know.

I haven't thought about it.

And I always tell her that's really bad.

I think it's important to have a wish list.

What's on your list of desires? And it could be things or experiences, but I feel like everybody should have three to five things that they can name at the ready of things that they want because that want for me is such a big part of passion for life.

That's a really, really good point because I think it ties into, if we're talking about eroticism now as it relates to sexuality, inevitably that is what people think of.

And if people haven't heard part one, we definitely go into things that aren't just simply about sex.

But if we are thinking about it that way, I think when it comes to having an imagination, you have to ultimately communicate it.

And I think that's maybe what you're saying.

You have to like state it out loud what you want for yourself and then definitely state it to your partner.

These are the three things that I think would make things better for me with our relationship sexually or otherwise.

Right,

right.

Which is the point, right? We keep talking about eroticism, yes, for the importance of a more intimate and just physically satisfying relationship, but we're also illustrating to the audience the importance of the principles of eroticism are the principles we bring into every aspect of our life when a person is living a fulfilled, well-lived life.

You know, you said how to want again.

Is that what you said? Um, I.

My older sister, as you know.

She's like pretty practical.

Which older sister? True.

Good point.

My oldest sister.

They're both very practical.

Perhaps I'm the most frivolous, which is the privilege of being the youngest.

And that's like saying a lot because I wouldn't say you're like overly frivolous.

Some might say I'm a bit Spartan, but I do like things.

But my oldest in particular, I will ask her, what's on your wish list? Like when her birthday is coming up and she's like, I don't know.

I haven't thought about it.

And I always tell her that's really bad.

I think it's important to have a wish list.

What's on your list of desires? And it could be things or experiences, but I feel like everybody should have three to five things that they can name at the ready of things that they want because that want for me is such a big part of passion for life.

That's a really, really good point because I think it ties into, if we're talking about eroticism now as it relates to sexuality, inevitably that is what people think of.

And if people haven't heard part one, we definitely go into things that aren't just simply about sex.

But if we are thinking about it that way, I think when it comes to having an imagination, you have to ultimately communicate it.

And I think that's maybe what you're saying.

You have to like state it out loud what you want for yourself and then definitely state it to your partner.

These are the three things that I think would make things better for me with our relationship sexually or otherwise.

Right,

right.

Which is the point, right? We keep talking about eroticism, yes, for the importance of a more intimate and just physically satisfying relationship, but we're also illustrating to the audience the importance of the principles of eroticism are the principles we bring into every aspect of our life when a person is living a fulfilled, well-lived life.