Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast
Aug 4, 2026 · 41 min · 14 segments
The Singles Series continues with Malachi from Texas, who processes the journey of carrying past pain into relationships, and how it just bleeds into the next relationship, and the next one – if you…
[upbeat music] I'm excited to introduce you to Malachi from Texas today on the Singles series.
Yes, it's a pleasure to be here.
What-- So as you were processing, you know, coming on the podcast for this series, what made you decide to do it?
I saw your post.
I didn't know exactly what all the details were.
I didn't know if it was gonna be me talking about my life, or advice, or kinda like a, I guess, one of those, like, celebrity dating games we kinda see in today's culture.
So, um, but I thought it was just...
I don't know.
I just feel like the Spirit just told me just to comment and see where we go and, um, just kinda use my testimony, either to help somebody or find a, find a person.
[laughs]
Yeah
I, I have loved the random stories that I have learned about over the years of people meeting through my ministry, whether it was through an event we did for singles or even a few different people have met in the comment section of one of my posts or, um, interacting on one of my singles things that we've done online.
So you just never know, and, and I think oftentimes ministries attract like-minded people.
So if there's a couple people that you follow and appreciate their work and their ministry, and then somebody else also follows them, reads their books, is downloading the same information, there's a higher likelihood that you'll be of the same mind.
So I'm so glad to have you and to get to know you today and to introduce you to some of the listeners as well.
[upbeat music] I'm excited to introduce you to Malachi from Texas today on the Singles series.
Yes, it's a pleasure to be here.
What-- So as you were processing, you know, coming on the podcast for this series, what made you decide to do it?
I saw your post.
I didn't know exactly what all the details were.
I didn't know if it was gonna be me talking about my life, or advice, or kinda like a, I guess, one of those, like, celebrity dating games we kinda see in today's culture.
So, um, but I thought it was just...
I don't know.
I just feel like the Spirit just told me just to comment and see where we go and, um, just kinda use my testimony, either to help somebody or find a, find a person.
[laughs]
Yeah
I, I have loved the random stories that I have learned about over the years of people meeting through my ministry, whether it was through an event we did for singles or even a few different people have met in the comment section of one of my posts or, um, interacting on one of my singles things that we've done online.
So you just never know, and, and I think oftentimes ministries attract like-minded people.
So if there's a couple people that you follow and appreciate their work and their ministry, and then somebody else also follows them, reads their books, is downloading the same information, there's a higher likelihood that you'll be of the same mind.
So I'm so glad to have you and to get to know you today and to introduce you to some of the listeners as well.
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