No dates, no texts, no hookups. Why Dee Salmin went ‘boy sober’ for three years.

So I was so lucky to receive a copy of your amazing book, which was my first read when I went to Bali this year.

It was right at the top and I'm so glad it was because it answered so many questions for women, which I really struggled to answer.

I'm a queer woman who speaks a lot about men's violence, et cetera, and de-centering men.

But I can't really speak to a lot of the lived experience of what is in here.

And it's full of advice, but it's far from preachy.

And it's really about, yeah, de-centering men, but centering yourself.

So it was, yeah, just a beautiful read.

I was so, so privileged to get to take it on holiday with me.

You talk a lot about the concept of going voiceover.

Another great

T-shirt.

I actually envisioned making one that said, don't talk to me, I'm voiceover.

That's it.

That's the first.

I mean, we've got the first two in a huge line of your new fashion brand.

Can you tell us about what going voiceover is? Because it is a whole thing.

I just learned about it thanks to your book.