Can Moms Love Like Jesus and Still Have Boundaries?

In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal (and her sister, Aubrey Fuhrman) talk about the tension many moms feel between loving sacrificially and setting healthy boundaries. Through an honest conversation about motherhood, family, and faith, they explore how boundaries are not about keeping people out, they are about creating space to love others well. Scarlet and Aubrey discuss the importance of inviting Jesus into our decisions, especially when navigating seasons of change like new motherhood. Aubrey shares her experience of setting boundaries around visits after having a baby and how those boundaries actually helped her love others more intentionally. This conversation offers encouragement for moms who struggle with guilt when saying no, reminding us that biblical love is not measured by constant availability, but by faithfulness to what God has called us to in each season. **In This Episode** - Boundaries are not about loving people less; they are about loving people wisely. - Healthy boundaries create room to be present, joyful, and intentional with the people God has entrusted to us. - Following Jesus means bringing Him into our decisions instead of simply reacting to guilt, expectations, or pressure. - Sacrificial love does not mean saying yes to everything or neglecting the responsibilities God has given us. - Prayer and Scripture help us discern when to open our hands and when to create wise limits. **Scripture Focus** - Mark 1:35–38 - Matthew 22:37–39 **Connect with Scarlet** If this episode encouraged you, would you take a minute to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another mom who's trying to faithfully point her kids to Jesus. You can connect with Scarlet on Instagram and find more resources, Bible studies, and encouragement at scarlethiltibidal.com. **Resources:** Boundaries Book Sign up for Morning Minute Get your copy of our latest prayer journal and join me each Monday (beginning September 14th) to listen to guided prayer and reflection that follows the journal: Faith in Action: Prayers from James for the Next Generation **Connect with Pardon The Mess:** Christian Parenting Pardon The Mess Scarlet’s Instagram Scarlet’s Facebook **Prefer video? This episode is on** YouTube**!** *Pardon The Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit* www.ChristianParenting.org Our Sponsors: \* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy