Jun 21, 2026 · 55 min · 10 segments
Many of us are tempted to manufacture our happiness by taking control of our circumstances. What will it take for us to stop powering our way to a happy ending? In this message, Pastor Philip Miller…
Philip MillerHost
We're looking at nine ways we lose ourselves and the one way that Jesus makes us whole.

We all wanna know who we are, don't we? We wake up in this world and we wonder, "Who on earth am I? Who am I really?" And we have these deep identity aches for significance, to be valued and to matter.

And all of these deep longings in our hearts are like, they're like homing beacons that are pointing us back to the, to the beginning.


But because of sin, we wake up estranged in this universe, separated from God, and so we find ourselves orphans in the universe.

We look primarily to people power, and possessions in order to meet those deep soul needs.

So we have these three deep identity needs for significance, security, and satisfaction, and then we go to try to get those needs met in three different ways, people, power, or possessions, which gives us a total of nine different identity traps, nine ways we can lose ourselves.


And usually when we look at this book or this story, we focus in on this wonderful, beautiful love story that takes place between Ruth and Boaz, and Naomi sort of gets a little bit forgotten, I think.

She's sort of like a marginal character off on the sidelines, sort of a supporting actress.

But actually, you could argue it's actually the other way around, that Naomi is in fact the main character of the story, and that Ruth and Boaz are the supporting act.


And so this really is the story of how an orphan-hearted widow learns to live as a beloved child of God.

We're looking at nine ways we lose ourselves and the one way that Jesus makes us whole.

We all wanna know who we are, don't we? We wake up in this world and we wonder, "Who on earth am I? Who am I really?" And we have these deep identity aches for significance, to be valued and to matter.

And all of these deep longings in our hearts are like, they're like homing beacons that are pointing us back to the, to the beginning.


But because of sin, we wake up estranged in this universe, separated from God, and so we find ourselves orphans in the universe.

We look primarily to people power, and possessions in order to meet those deep soul needs.

So we have these three deep identity needs for significance, security, and satisfaction, and then we go to try to get those needs met in three different ways, people, power, or possessions, which gives us a total of nine different identity traps, nine ways we can lose ourselves.


And usually when we look at this book or this story, we focus in on this wonderful, beautiful love story that takes place between Ruth and Boaz, and Naomi sort of gets a little bit forgotten, I think.

She's sort of like a marginal character off on the sidelines, sort of a supporting actress.

But actually, you could argue it's actually the other way around, that Naomi is in fact the main character of the story, and that Ruth and Boaz are the supporting act.


And so this really is the story of how an orphan-hearted widow learns to live as a beloved child of God.
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