Aug 10, 2026 · 51 min · 14 segments
My guest today is Paige Rome, RPsych. Paige is a Registered Psychologist and founder of Common Thread Psychology in Airdrie, Alberta. Paige is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia…
Paige RomeGuest
Tom ParkesHost
Yeah, so in your story about that first night and then maybe how it was reinforced, there was this... bottom up level of it, of just your body not being able to sleep that night.

And then there's the way that it was almost like an intrusive thought that came in of like, what if I can't sleep and I can't care for my baby? So there's this merging of like bottom up and top down processes that at least started in your retelling of that first night.


And we'll say, you know what, I slept a couple poor nights this week, I have insomnia.


And that would be at least three nights per week of really difficult falling asleep and staying asleep throughout the night.



So on top of the, so three, three nights a week, you're going to want to see to, to diagnose insomnia anyways, that show up, right? You're also going to see it at least for three months if you're going to say, okay, this has now become chronic insomnia because insomnia can show up for a brief period of time, which is very common.

About 30% of the population will experience insomnia symptoms at some point, but for it to be considered chronic, that's at least three months of three nights a week of struggle that's really impacting your ability to function in the day.

And with this, there's working with people who have struggled with this and knowing people and even nights where I've struggled sleeping.

It's so tough because it's one of these things that you want so badly, but there's nothing you can do ultimately to make it happen.

And so there becomes this real paradoxical energy of the very thing you want being completely out of your control, which I think we're going to get to as well.

But in both of those, like sleep onset and the maintenance side of it, which I'm sure people can have both, right? In that, there has to be some merging of those bottom up and top down too.

Yeah, so in your story about that first night and then maybe how it was reinforced, there was this... bottom up level of it, of just your body not being able to sleep that night.

And then there's the way that it was almost like an intrusive thought that came in of like, what if I can't sleep and I can't care for my baby? So there's this merging of like bottom up and top down processes that at least started in your retelling of that first night.


And we'll say, you know what, I slept a couple poor nights this week, I have insomnia.


And that would be at least three nights per week of really difficult falling asleep and staying asleep throughout the night.



So on top of the, so three, three nights a week, you're going to want to see to, to diagnose insomnia anyways, that show up, right? You're also going to see it at least for three months if you're going to say, okay, this has now become chronic insomnia because insomnia can show up for a brief period of time, which is very common.

About 30% of the population will experience insomnia symptoms at some point, but for it to be considered chronic, that's at least three months of three nights a week of struggle that's really impacting your ability to function in the day.

And with this, there's working with people who have struggled with this and knowing people and even nights where I've struggled sleeping.

It's so tough because it's one of these things that you want so badly, but there's nothing you can do ultimately to make it happen.

And so there becomes this real paradoxical energy of the very thing you want being completely out of your control, which I think we're going to get to as well.

But in both of those, like sleep onset and the maintenance side of it, which I'm sure people can have both, right? In that, there has to be some merging of those bottom up and top down too.
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