eHarmony Couldn't Find Him a Match. He's Now Coached Men for 20 Years. w/ JT Tran ( Ep 335 )

That's interesting.

So you met the girl, you were able to get her, you know, despite all of the sort of internal disadvantages you thought you had using techniques you didn't realize you were using.

And then after the

fact, Holy by accident, holy by accident, but it's all the same thing that we now understand.

Like she said, yeah, That when I walked into the room, I lit it up.

And that's because I was meeting my friends in the common dorm area.

And I walk in and like, you know, you ever watch Seinfeld or Cheers or Friends when the one character walks in and everybody like says, hey, JT.

And I did that.

And like everybody's like, yo, JT.

I'm like, dude, what's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? And there's this really cute blonde girl in the corner.

And I'm like, I don't know you.

And I just walked away from her.

And the thing is, like,

she told me later, like, again, I lit up the room.

Everybody seemed to know me.

And then I ignored her.

Yeah.

Which, you know, the thing is, like, I didn't ignore her because I was too cool for school.

I ignored her because I was too terrified to talk to her.

I didn't

have anything else to say.

Yeah, I'm like, I'm not going to talk to you.

It's like, oh, my God.

But it was all those principles, like having good vibes, good energy, social proof and not being needy and chasing that one girl.

But again.