Oct 21, 2026 · 1 hr 39 min · 18 segments
Do guys go to raves for the music… or the girls?! 👀 In Episode 101 of the I'M PEAKING Podcast, we dress up for Halloween and get into why some guys really go to festivals, the assumptions people make…
Devin LarscheidHost
Brinda ArreygueHostRichard SabiagaHostJarren MaalaHost
I stumbled across this article this thread on Reddit, and I'm going to read it here.

It's impossible to date, too, unless it's impossible to date, too, unless you accept that your partner is just not going to dance with you.

I've never met an attractive single age appropriate person who doesn't view raving as a red flag and sign of immaturity.

That might be different if I lived in Berlin or New York, but in most of the country, 30-somethings are pretty committed to their 10 p.m. bedtimes and early morning workout classes.
I didn't do any of this in my 20s, so it's not as though I can tell myself I had a good run that's naturally coming

I don't mind going alone and that can offer its own benefits, but I miss having others to dance with and resent that everyone I know is slowing down faster than I am.

Like, where is this guy from? Like, what part of the country is he from? From the middle of nowhere? Or is he from, like, you know, California, Florida? Because he's over here saying that, like, people are strict on their bedtimes, 10 o'clock, wake up early.

I stumbled across this article this thread on Reddit, and I'm going to read it here.

It's impossible to date, too, unless it's impossible to date, too, unless you accept that your partner is just not going to dance with you.

I've never met an attractive single age appropriate person who doesn't view raving as a red flag and sign of immaturity.

That might be different if I lived in Berlin or New York, but in most of the country, 30-somethings are pretty committed to their 10 p.m. bedtimes and early morning workout classes.
I didn't do any of this in my 20s, so it's not as though I can tell myself I had a good run that's naturally coming

I don't mind going alone and that can offer its own benefits, but I miss having others to dance with and resent that everyone I know is slowing down faster than I am.

Like, where is this guy from? Like, what part of the country is he from? From the middle of nowhere? Or is he from, like, you know, California, Florida? Because he's over here saying that, like, people are strict on their bedtimes, 10 o'clock, wake up early.
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