Jul 25, 2026 · 58 min · 13 segments
Why are we losing our taste for what is real—and what practices can help us recover it? John Vervaeke is joined by Guy Sengstock and Kyle Koch for a conversation on connection as something…
Kyle KochGuest
Guy SengstockGuest
And yeah, for me, This journey has been really illuminating since I found John's work in 2018.

What does it mean to be in relationship? What is meaning? How does meaning come to be? And why is my relationship with nature so important to me? It's so important to me and I've been teaching nature connection for over a decade.

And I was experiencing this reoccurring theme is when people spend time in nature, their entire worldview shifts.

They become more relaxed and empathetic and aware and grounded and their quality of life increases.

And then as I came into John's work, I'm like, oh, he just gave me language for things I have been doing for a really long time.

And what I like about John is we get to better systematically apply these principles.

There's something about sitting around a fire where you can sit next to a person with a fire for hours.

And you're like, I don't why is this so awkward? And then John started to kind of illuminate for me the neuroscience and the evolutionary history and the exactation and all the things that is actually happening.

So then me as a facilitator, now I get to have a choice when I'm facilitating an experience and I'm choosing whether to have a fire or not to have a fire.

I actually know, not just from my experience, but I have a whole plethora of scientific knowledge that supports the decision of actually having a fire is really important if I want to increase the probability of the impact that I'm having on people.

And we'll talk more about that in this conversation, but that's like one of hundreds of examples that I've gleaned from John over the years.

You know, it has benefits, but if we have to choose, we can kind of use the evidence to keep stacking the experiences in our favor.

And yeah, for me, This journey has been really illuminating since I found John's work in 2018.

What does it mean to be in relationship? What is meaning? How does meaning come to be? And why is my relationship with nature so important to me? It's so important to me and I've been teaching nature connection for over a decade.

And I was experiencing this reoccurring theme is when people spend time in nature, their entire worldview shifts.

They become more relaxed and empathetic and aware and grounded and their quality of life increases.

And then as I came into John's work, I'm like, oh, he just gave me language for things I have been doing for a really long time.

And what I like about John is we get to better systematically apply these principles.

There's something about sitting around a fire where you can sit next to a person with a fire for hours.

And you're like, I don't why is this so awkward? And then John started to kind of illuminate for me the neuroscience and the evolutionary history and the exactation and all the things that is actually happening.

So then me as a facilitator, now I get to have a choice when I'm facilitating an experience and I'm choosing whether to have a fire or not to have a fire.

I actually know, not just from my experience, but I have a whole plethora of scientific knowledge that supports the decision of actually having a fire is really important if I want to increase the probability of the impact that I'm having on people.

And we'll talk more about that in this conversation, but that's like one of hundreds of examples that I've gleaned from John over the years.

You know, it has benefits, but if we have to choose, we can kind of use the evidence to keep stacking the experiences in our favor.
The rest of this transcript — segmented and speaker-labeled, so you land on the exact moment something was said
Search every transcript — by keyword, by phrase, or by meaning, across every show Radar indexes
Trends — what is surging across podcasts, measured against its own baseline
Alerts — when a name you follow appears in a newly indexed episode
No account is needed to search Radar.