Say It Skillfully

And he is still alive.

He was supposed to be on the show, and we got stood up, which is okay.

That happens.

Well, I want to jump into the book.

Now, We're not going to give anything away, but I do want to hit some of the big ideas.

And really one of the big, big, big ideas is the me, you, we framework.

And before I turn it over to you, Molly, I would just like to state that a lot of people in my reading circles that I'm close to, We've read either a few or all of Lencioni's books.

In fact, I would say a handful have read every one of them.

And if you were to quiz them, survey them, what book is your favorite, the ideal team player would be near the top.

It's going to be anywhere from one, two, or three.

I just guarantee it.

The problem with The Ideal Team Player is, I'm not going to say it's shallow, I'm not going to say it's surfacy, but it's lacking something.

And as I got through just even two chapters, I'm thinking, oh, this is the book that everyone needs to read if you liked The Ideal Team Player.

Unfair question, because maybe you haven't read The Ideal Team Player.

Do you agree with me? Yeah,

I haven't read it, but I will tell you, I really appreciate you bringing this up because that is why I wrote, I created this and I wrote the book because the number one thing that is going to kind of influence one's success and happiness in life is the extent to which you feel comfortable being able to say what you think needs to be said and being who you are.

And no one

teaches us how to do this.

And it's like criminal.

All the education that we get.

Now, I understand this because learning how and when best to use your voice is a very individual and personalized skill, right? Individual in that you are unique.

And that you actually have to find your voice.

Molly can't find it for you, right? You got to do the work.

And personalized because how people speak up isn't a one size fits all solution.

I can speak up in a way that you can't.