Jul 16, 2026 · 43 min · 10 segments
Angela Ruggiero achieved what most athletes spend a lifetime chasing before she turned 20. As the youngest player on the first-ever U.S. women's Olympic hockey team, she won Olympic gold and went on…
So when you were nine years old, you got cut from a boys hockey team and your father gave you some advice that changed everything.
And I was probably the third or fourth best player on the ice and ended up not making the team.
So I remember I was crying in the car, you know, very upset, learned about what gender was for the first time at nine.
He's like, you know what, Angela, you can prove them right and just like quit and sulk in your, you know, sadness and whatever.
prove them wrong and he's like you know what if you're the best player on the ice next year they can't not take you and so he basically helped me see that there are two paths you can take when disappointment hits or roadblocks or discrimination
important lesson because I obviously chose to say like I'm going to be the best next year dad and um and prove them wrong and so I always had this like chip on my shoulder growing up like I prove I was belonged on the ice as the only girl in California um at my age division you know I made the national team six years later literally um because of that focus and determination and kind of you know I wasn't going through the motion so it was just it was just a good lesson of like you know, discrimination is going to hit you or roadblocks and you always have a choice.
And hopefully, and thankfully, he gave me those choices and I took the right one.
I don't want to play for you anyway, but I played for the boys team that like brought me in and the coach, Scott Plumer, who was my coach, was just great.
And I was just in a good situation, but I did practice and play against the other team.
So when you were nine years old, you got cut from a boys hockey team and your father gave you some advice that changed everything.
And I was probably the third or fourth best player on the ice and ended up not making the team.
So I remember I was crying in the car, you know, very upset, learned about what gender was for the first time at nine.
He's like, you know what, Angela, you can prove them right and just like quit and sulk in your, you know, sadness and whatever.
prove them wrong and he's like you know what if you're the best player on the ice next year they can't not take you and so he basically helped me see that there are two paths you can take when disappointment hits or roadblocks or discrimination
important lesson because I obviously chose to say like I'm going to be the best next year dad and um and prove them wrong and so I always had this like chip on my shoulder growing up like I prove I was belonged on the ice as the only girl in California um at my age division you know I made the national team six years later literally um because of that focus and determination and kind of you know I wasn't going through the motion so it was just it was just a good lesson of like you know, discrimination is going to hit you or roadblocks and you always have a choice.
And hopefully, and thankfully, he gave me those choices and I took the right one.
I don't want to play for you anyway, but I played for the boys team that like brought me in and the coach, Scott Plumer, who was my coach, was just great.
And I was just in a good situation, but I did practice and play against the other team.
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