Oct 20, 2026 · 1 hr 26 min · 14 segments
You want a godly wife. But are you becoming the kind of man she can trust?In this episode of UPD Podcast, Jonny Hanson and Andy Lamb tackle Christian dating, preparing for marriage, and the hard…
Johnny HansenHost
Andy LambHostA godly man does not use strength to dominate a person, to intimidate, to pressure, or con- control a woman.
He uses it to protect, to serve, to stabilize, and to bless.
This is biblical masculinity.
This is not what young men are watching today on television, Andrew Tate.
This guy should be in prison.
This guy is awful, and you have an entire generation of young men who are listening to this guy talk about how he and they are supposed to use women like they're disposable objects.
And I want you to understand, that's not what biblical men do.
We provide safety, security.
You know what we do? We build.
We build wives, we build sons, we build daughters, we build businesses.
We build these things.
You're a builder if you're a guy.
If you're a follower of Jesus, you are demonstrating who you are, not by your domination of other people, but by your self-control.
You know, we, we hear this over and over again, and it's just been this word that has floated around in our conversations.
If you've been listening over the last month and a half, we continue to come back to this word.
Not even something that we're bringing up, but it, it continues to be a part of the conversations, uh, of so many people.
Because as we wrestle through this idea of manhood, like Pastor Mike was talking about there, if you are not walking with Christ, then you're gonna get your idea of manhood from somewhere, whether it be from the streets, whether it be from a older brother, whether it be from a, a crazy uncle, whether it be from somebody.
A godly man does not use strength to dominate a person, to intimidate, to pressure, or con- control a woman.
He uses it to protect, to serve, to stabilize, and to bless.
This is biblical masculinity.
This is not what young men are watching today on television, Andrew Tate.
This guy should be in prison.
This guy is awful, and you have an entire generation of young men who are listening to this guy talk about how he and they are supposed to use women like they're disposable objects.
And I want you to understand, that's not what biblical men do.
We provide safety, security.
You know what we do? We build.
We build wives, we build sons, we build daughters, we build businesses.
We build these things.
You're a builder if you're a guy.
If you're a follower of Jesus, you are demonstrating who you are, not by your domination of other people, but by your self-control.
You know, we, we hear this over and over again, and it's just been this word that has floated around in our conversations.
If you've been listening over the last month and a half, we continue to come back to this word.
Not even something that we're bringing up, but it, it continues to be a part of the conversations, uh, of so many people.
Because as we wrestle through this idea of manhood, like Pastor Mike was talking about there, if you are not walking with Christ, then you're gonna get your idea of manhood from somewhere, whether it be from the streets, whether it be from a older brother, whether it be from a, a crazy uncle, whether it be from somebody.
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