The Crisis Behind Lifequakes
Bruce's crisis revealed why he studied transitions
Tom MatharHost
Romany YouellGuest
[ethereal music] Uh, you know what? I used to be reluctant, but over the time I've grown to like it down here, this dark, crumbly little place.

I've even started looking forward to it, which is perhaps not the healthiest thing to say on a podcast about wellbeing.

Left alone with my thoughts, getting ready into the conversation with Bruce, I keep coming back to an exhibition that I saw in London last November.

It was by the Wellcome Collection, an exhibition called The Coming of Age, and it was about how we see and feel and move through getting older from being a teenager right through to old age.

And there was an exhibit that I spent a bit of time on at the time, an old board game called The Game of Life.

Do you know that one? Anyway, struck me that this game might be the perfect little monument to the story we tell ourselves about how a life is meant to go, the linear life.

And this is how that board game works, right? You start at a fork, and you choose option A, college, which costs you but might pay off later, option B, straight into a career.

Then you spin the wheel, and you move along the track, and life happens to you at fixed stops along the way.

At the end of the board, you have millionaire estates if it went well and more modest means [laughs] if it didn't.

Well, I think we all know the story this game is telling us, one track, one direction, one way to win.

But I also don't think I've ever met a person whose life actually looked like that.

[ethereal music] [upbeat music] And back up out of the rabbit hole and breathing in the good, clean Scottish air.

[ethereal music] Uh, you know what? I used to be reluctant, but over the time I've grown to like it down here, this dark, crumbly little place.

I've even started looking forward to it, which is perhaps not the healthiest thing to say on a podcast about wellbeing.

Left alone with my thoughts, getting ready into the conversation with Bruce, I keep coming back to an exhibition that I saw in London last November.

It was by the Wellcome Collection, an exhibition called The Coming of Age, and it was about how we see and feel and move through getting older from being a teenager right through to old age.

And there was an exhibit that I spent a bit of time on at the time, an old board game called The Game of Life.

Do you know that one? Anyway, struck me that this game might be the perfect little monument to the story we tell ourselves about how a life is meant to go, the linear life.

And this is how that board game works, right? You start at a fork, and you choose option A, college, which costs you but might pay off later, option B, straight into a career.

Then you spin the wheel, and you move along the track, and life happens to you at fixed stops along the way.

At the end of the board, you have millionaire estates if it went well and more modest means [laughs] if it didn't.

Well, I think we all know the story this game is telling us, one track, one direction, one way to win.

But I also don't think I've ever met a person whose life actually looked like that.

[ethereal music] [upbeat music] And back up out of the rabbit hole and breathing in the good, clean Scottish air.
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