Jul 23, 2026 · 35 min · 12 segments
Amanda and her dom sit down for an honest conversation about how they navigate boundaries, fear, and communication in their 24/7 dynamic. **Book A Consult Call with Amanda**…
Amanda DamesHost
It's a special episode this week because I have invited my dom back to the show.
Hey, happy to be here.
I've invited you on 'cause I'd love to get deep on our dynamic and how we navigate boundaries, especially, like, through day-to-day life.
Okay, I wanna know when I say boundaries, what do you think about when I say boundaries?
When you say boundaries, it's just the way we play and everything else.
Like, we don't really have a lot of hard limits with each other that don't align.
You know, everything we usually play with aligns in the most capacity.
So boundaries are more just how we feel kind of day to day on, you know, things that we are okay with, we may not be okay with day to day, and that's kinda what we communicate in our boundaries and how we're approaching life together.
I think that's the context of why I brought you on, but, like, for me, boundaries are the things where I'm like, "You cannot do these things," or-
Sure
... "I can't do these things," or, "In order to be in a relationship with you, I need these things from you." So you would agree with that?
Yes.
With that in mind, when you say we're aligned in boundaries, the boundaries we're aligned in is, like, no blood, no extreme play, no ignoring each other.
We don't go to bed angry.
We talk about things.
We communicate.
Even if we don't wanna talk to each other, we communicate that.
"I'm upset right now.
I don't wanna deal with it.
I will revisit this conversation tomorrow.
We will check in before bed, but I need space."
It's a special episode this week because I have invited my dom back to the show.
Hey, happy to be here.
I've invited you on 'cause I'd love to get deep on our dynamic and how we navigate boundaries, especially, like, through day-to-day life.
Okay, I wanna know when I say boundaries, what do you think about when I say boundaries?
When you say boundaries, it's just the way we play and everything else.
Like, we don't really have a lot of hard limits with each other that don't align.
You know, everything we usually play with aligns in the most capacity.
So boundaries are more just how we feel kind of day to day on, you know, things that we are okay with, we may not be okay with day to day, and that's kinda what we communicate in our boundaries and how we're approaching life together.
I think that's the context of why I brought you on, but, like, for me, boundaries are the things where I'm like, "You cannot do these things," or-
Sure
... "I can't do these things," or, "In order to be in a relationship with you, I need these things from you." So you would agree with that?
Yes.
With that in mind, when you say we're aligned in boundaries, the boundaries we're aligned in is, like, no blood, no extreme play, no ignoring each other.
We don't go to bed angry.
We talk about things.
We communicate.
Even if we don't wanna talk to each other, we communicate that.
"I'm upset right now.
I don't wanna deal with it.
I will revisit this conversation tomorrow.
We will check in before bed, but I need space."
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