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Sep 13, 2026
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But that will not help anyone they are currently terrorizing.
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BDSM hits the silver screen.
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Pilion, a skillful debut from the British filmmaker Harry Leighton, releases nationwide in America this weekend.
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The movie follows Colin, Harry Melling, a quiet and sensitive man who sings in a barbershop quartet and lives with his parents.
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At the pub one Christmas Eve, he is slipped a note by Ray, Alexander Skarsgård, a taciturn, hunky biker, inviting him to meet the next day.
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An unpromising hookup in an alleyway marks the start of an intense relationship and a sexual awakening for Colin.
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In BDSM vernacular, Ray is a dom and Colin becomes his sub.
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This dynamic extends beyond sex.
Shan BoodramHOST
But as long as everybody involved consents, Kinks and fetishes can be a fun and fulfilling part of sex.
Shan BoodramHOST
Like to give one big example, a kink that often gets misunderstood is BDSM.
Shan BoodramHOST
The definition has changed over time, but today, it's generally understood to cover bondage, discipline, and submission, and sadism and masochism, sex acts that often play with power dynamics or giving and receiving pain.
Shan BoodramHOST
Which might sound surprising.
Shan BoodramHOST
since they both are tangled up in the opioid and dopamine systems.
Shan BoodramHOST
But playing with pain requires caution.
Shan BoodramHOST
Research has shown that injuries from BDSM activities do happen, both intentionally and unintentionally.
Shan BoodramHOST
But the BDSM community puts a strong emphasis on consent and safety.
E.L. CanneyGUEST
But not to be confused with smutty, I guess, is the word.
E.L. CanneyGUEST
It's not dark and like BDSM necessarily.
E.L. CanneyGUEST
I mean, there's some... adventurous things that they do um but it's dark in the fact that like there are a lot of intense themes that the um the characters go through and like there could be um some really intense like relationships and some really intense circumstances and there's obviously like some element of war and battles and so it's just intense in a lot of different ways and my writing style is like I want equal parts romance world building and plot like it's new adult spicy like uh very interesting um personal relationships but like you also get a full you know plot and story throughout it all so in my mind it just kind of collects all these things that i feel like we know and love on all these different genres and it just kind of smushes them all together in the best way
Xavier HarlstonHOST
and how long is your content warning
Hecate ReignsGUEST
Um, so when I first started, uh, my partner and I, um, who's, uh, on most of our content at this point, um, he is my slave.
Hecate ReignsGUEST
But, uh, when we started, um, I was actually his slave, um, in a, um, consensual 24/7 BDSM relationship.
Hecate ReignsGUEST
Um, and so we produced content that was, um, the other way around.
Hecate ReignsGUEST
Oh, man, I didn't know we could smoke in here.
MattHOST
Go ahead.
Hecate ReignsGUEST
Yeah.
Hecate ReignsGUEST
So, um, my, my partner, um, who I'm going to refer to as Piggy, um, my partner Piggy and I, um, we, uh, our relationship started, um, as a BDSM relationship.
Hecate ReignsGUEST
Um, it was actually very casual.
Charlotte SinsGUEST
I don't know.
Charlotte SinsGUEST
I think I always was interested in sex work and especially BDSM.
Charlotte SinsGUEST
I always thought it would be cool to be a bondage model or be a dominatrix.
Charlotte SinsGUEST
I think I always saw myself... doing something like that i don't know if i ever saw myself doing what i'm doing at the level that i'm doing it at yeah um but i i knew for sure like i wasn't gonna really even dabble in sex work unless again it was something that i was like positive i wanted to pursue you know what i mean that like you're gonna go in like make sure you're kind of willing to follow it through you know and i think some people they come in and like for them it's just a short term like i mean i'm out but i knew that like once i started this trajectory i Like my eggs are in this basket.
Bobbie LucasHOST
Oh, my God.
Bobbie LucasHOST
Are we into BDSM?
Heather ThomasGUEST
I am.
Heather ThomasGUEST
Actually, I'm exploring it more.
AliciaHOST
Okay, so now we go explore Pride.
AliciaHOST
We go to the leather tent where Lisa is very disturbed by BDSM.
AliciaHOST
Sandoval doesn't really get it, but he's willing to do anything to get out of this dry spell with Ariana, you know? Which I
MeredithHOST
get.
Juliette KaramanHOST
Now, they're the couple that, to get more out of it, it's like, add the fire jacket, add the helmet.
Juliette KaramanHOST
Tantra weekends, BDSM clubs, every possible container for intensity.
Juliette KaramanHOST
And every single time, right at the peak, right at the moment that would crack them open, they leave their bodies.
Juliette KaramanHOST
Dissociate.
Juliette KaramanHOST
Polarity without a container isn't hot.
Juliette KaramanHOST
It's just flooding and the system can't take that.
Juliette KaramanHOST
The couple with the fire hat, the fire jackets, the BDSM, the tantra, they weren't missing intensity, but they were missing the structure to actually stay present in it.
Juliette KaramanHOST
Here's something you can do right now.
Derek KageGUEST
Mm.
Derek KageGUEST
Which is why I'm so into BDSM and I'm a very kinky guy.
Derek KageGUEST
I'm like, well, I want to try that.
Derek KageGUEST
I'll try anything twice just to make sure, you
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Christy LoveHOST
Yeah, that's fascinating.
Christy LoveHOST
Yeah, I know.
Christy LoveHOST
I know for me, getting into BDSM really brought a lot of healing for me from my emotional trauma
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as a
The Cook Next DoorGUEST
I'm not
Brian MorganHOST
big into, like, BDSM.
The Cook Next DoorGUEST
Okay, cool.
The Cook Next DoorGUEST
I'm not big into, like, BDSM.
Brian MorganHOST
Yeah, the BDSM world, okay.
The Cook Next DoorGUEST
Not a problem.
The Cook Next DoorGUEST
Yeah, I'm more like, you know, oral worship had you know having a woman piss on my face you know or in my mouth um you know pegging uh this one this one lady i played with she had a i think it's called a magic wand something like that you know you know we were playing around with that um so yeah i just like to have i just like to have fun with it you know
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