What we wish we knew before getting married and buying a house
Sep 23, 2026 · 1 hr 47 min · 15 segments
Don't get scammed, friends!
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Sarah MoonGuestCourtneyHostRoyceHost
Sep 23, 2026 · 1 hr 47 min · 15 segments
Don't get scammed, friends!
Sarah MoonGuestCourtneyHostRoyceHostjust had this moment where I was like, this is such a complicated word that's hitting me in a way that it's not going to hit every reader.
But since I know, I know.
Yeah.
Like I didn't use the word asexual, but like I very proudly, without shame, would tell people, I don't want to have sex.
And like some of them themselves might have even been on the ace spectrum looking back.
I found out sort of after the fact that sometimes I was excluded from certain conversations or events because like, they knew I wouldn't necessarily be comfortable.
Like I was kind of proud almost just like you all are the weird deviant people who want to have sex.
But then later when I was starting to question, I didn't like, you know, being perceived that way.
And so I was one of those cases that used to like joke about sex all the time I mean to me it was a joke but like it was a way that I could connect with people and like talk about it in a way that made me comfortable because you know it was a joke to me but because of that like my crass sexual sense of humor people then at one point we were like hanging out talking us dance majors and they were talking about sex or whatever and And one of them was like, oh, of course Sarah's not a virgin.
just had this moment where I was like, this is such a complicated word that's hitting me in a way that it's not going to hit every reader.
But since I know, I know.
Yeah.
Like I didn't use the word asexual, but like I very proudly, without shame, would tell people, I don't want to have sex.
And like some of them themselves might have even been on the ace spectrum looking back.
I found out sort of after the fact that sometimes I was excluded from certain conversations or events because like, they knew I wouldn't necessarily be comfortable.
Like I was kind of proud almost just like you all are the weird deviant people who want to have sex.
But then later when I was starting to question, I didn't like, you know, being perceived that way.
And so I was one of those cases that used to like joke about sex all the time I mean to me it was a joke but like it was a way that I could connect with people and like talk about it in a way that made me comfortable because you know it was a joke to me but because of that like my crass sexual sense of humor people then at one point we were like hanging out talking us dance majors and they were talking about sex or whatever and And one of them was like, oh, of course Sarah's not a virgin.
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