Oct 15, 2026 · 1 hr 36 min · 16 segments
This week, I respond to one of my viral videos and the comments section full of people who apparently know me better than I know myself. We talk relationship trauma, how people make their ex's…
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I definitely wanted to start off positive, because, um, I wanna do this thing where I do beef of the week, and usually I would probably hold that towards the end of the podcast, or at least the middle before I call my dad or some shit, but I gotta address some shit right away.

Um, I forgot about social media, right? I think I've been living in this world where I post videos and they go viral, and there's so many comments that I don't even look at all the comments.

Like, if, if Crash Emmys posts something and there's people talking shit about me in the comments or saying something, uh, that's negative, I don't pay attention to it because it's 1,000 comments on a post, so why would I give a fuck about somebody with no followers saying some shit about me? But when you have a smaller account, y- you just can't ignore it, you know? And it's just like, sometimes it's just, like, the s-stupidity.

When I put out this video, I didn't expect to get some of the reactions that I got, you know? I expected some of the, "Oh, you, you a simp," you know? I get that.

But what I didn't expect was people actually debating it, because I even put in there before I went, like, the start the bashing thing, I was like, I put in a story about a woman being caressed, uh, touched inappropriately, you know? I wasn't talking about women bashing men in, you know, a relationship sense.

You know, "All men ain't shit, men ain't shit." I was talking about from a safety issue, and some men came on there and start fucking debating.

And the reason I screenshot it, some of y'all actually have valid points, but y'all valid points wasn't for the point I was making, nigga.

I'm saying women that have had bad experiences with men, caressing them, touching them, uh, anything inappropriately, maybe even, like, venturing into sexual, sexual assault.

If, if I hear women saying, "Hey, these men do this, all men do this, all men do this," yes, I'm gonna sit there and let them vent.

I'm not a fucking simp because I let them vent, because I don't say shit, 'cause I don't intervene.

I love all the comments 'cause the main comment was like, "Hit dogs holler." Why the fuck would that offend me? It's not me.

If somebody goes, "All people do this," and then y'all try to take that and put it with race.

They'll be like, "What if they say all Black people?" Bitch, we not talking about all Black people.

I definitely wanted to start off positive, because, um, I wanna do this thing where I do beef of the week, and usually I would probably hold that towards the end of the podcast, or at least the middle before I call my dad or some shit, but I gotta address some shit right away.

Um, I forgot about social media, right? I think I've been living in this world where I post videos and they go viral, and there's so many comments that I don't even look at all the comments.

Like, if, if Crash Emmys posts something and there's people talking shit about me in the comments or saying something, uh, that's negative, I don't pay attention to it because it's 1,000 comments on a post, so why would I give a fuck about somebody with no followers saying some shit about me? But when you have a smaller account, y- you just can't ignore it, you know? And it's just like, sometimes it's just, like, the s-stupidity.

When I put out this video, I didn't expect to get some of the reactions that I got, you know? I expected some of the, "Oh, you, you a simp," you know? I get that.

But what I didn't expect was people actually debating it, because I even put in there before I went, like, the start the bashing thing, I was like, I put in a story about a woman being caressed, uh, touched inappropriately, you know? I wasn't talking about women bashing men in, you know, a relationship sense.

You know, "All men ain't shit, men ain't shit." I was talking about from a safety issue, and some men came on there and start fucking debating.

And the reason I screenshot it, some of y'all actually have valid points, but y'all valid points wasn't for the point I was making, nigga.

I'm saying women that have had bad experiences with men, caressing them, touching them, uh, anything inappropriately, maybe even, like, venturing into sexual, sexual assault.

If, if I hear women saying, "Hey, these men do this, all men do this, all men do this," yes, I'm gonna sit there and let them vent.

I'm not a fucking simp because I let them vent, because I don't say shit, 'cause I don't intervene.

I love all the comments 'cause the main comment was like, "Hit dogs holler." Why the fuck would that offend me? It's not me.

If somebody goes, "All people do this," and then y'all try to take that and put it with race.

They'll be like, "What if they say all Black people?" Bitch, we not talking about all Black people.
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