#11 - Q&A: Should you have a “girlfriend” in your 20s, money, success power.

Someone called N7 on Instagram.

How to maintain and go about a long-term relationship.

A lot of guys get this seriously wrong and you've heard me talk about it before.

This is one of the unteachable lessons.

You can try and teach someone relationship advice.

Maybe a few of you will even listen, but a lot of people have to learn it themselves.

I can tell you the best advice right now.

You just have no control over your heart yet and how you feel about women.

You have no ability to control yourself because it's the first time you've maybe experienced love or relationship with a woman.

Trust me, it does get easier.

But how do you maintain and go about a long-term relationship? I've had a few.

I've never been longer than two years.

And that's because I've normally gotten disinterested or I'm having such huge level ups in my life that I want to move on to a new place.

I've got quite dopaminergic personality.

So I like new things, new adventures, new people.

I really struggle with staying in the same place, feeling like the same person for too long.

I've moved all over the world since I've been an adult.

I can't really stay more than three or four months in the same place without at least some travel.

And I'm very similar with women.

It's like two years with a woman and I'm getting itchy at that point.

So I'm obviously not the best person to ask this question to, to have a productive and long-lasting long-term relationship.

But I've had some very good, good relationships, just no longer than two years.

Maintaining a relationship is all about keeping frame as a man and very little about keeping her happy.

You've got to understand that.

A lot of people get angry at that.