David Deida

Asking for help allows others to give us the gift of their skills.

I remember seeing somewhere, I'm pretty sure it was a David Deida book, a quote, You must trust that the feminine side of yourself is not stupid, inadequate or weak.

This quote really stopped me in my tracks.

I had always identified that asking for help or admitting that I couldn't do something was a sign of weakness.

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But my guest today says it actually might be a doorway.

David Deida wrote The Way of the Superior Man nearly 30 years ago, and it's quite literally shaped a generation of men, including me.

But in his newest book, The Man of Zero, it picks up where that one left off.

And today we talk about the difference between living from lack and living from fullness.

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Now, let me introduce you to a man who might not need an introduction.

David Data is one of the most influential and probably provocative teachers on masculinity, intimacy, and spiritual growth for the last three decades now.

He has 11 books, including the international bestseller, The Way of the Superior Man, Dear Lover, The Enlightened Sex Manual, and his newest book, which we talk about today, The Man of Zero.

But then what if you've never been able to improve your sex life? So I'm not saying being a degenerate, but I'd say that some sex education can be valuable, especially for men.

Often, you know, quite frankly for women, it's like, they don't really have to do anything like you know they can improve for enough but most of the pressure is for a man and a lot of men think they can just wait and just be good at it naturally like it's not really how it works one practice is sometimes key but really good sex education is quite vitally important because when it comes to it and you know that you're not good in the bedroom it fucks your mind as a man after you've been watching porn for 10 years 15 years and you are scared to show your dick to the woman that you're in love with because you think you've got a small dick size the psychology of a man's brain when it comes to the bedroom is deeply important whether we want to say it's degenerate or not sex is the bodily transmission of love that's a fantastic phrase by this author david deida and so if you neglect this part of your life i'm not saying to go fuck anyone right now okay i'm not saying be a degenerate or anything but i'm saying that this is something that you should probably still keep in mind right that you probably do want to be good here Now I've made a lot of mistakes when it came to first being like sexually active.

And for a whole year of my life, it really fucked me.

Honestly, it was like the thing I would think about every day.

When a man grows tired of his life, what can he do? The man of zero shows a way through the doorway of emptiness into a freedom more powerful than sex and more boundless than success.

His website is data.info if you'd like to learn more.

Folks, please join me in a very warm welcome for our guest today, David Data.

Welcome, David.

It will literally transform your life.

It's called The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.

There's a chapter in this book which I constantly go back to to refresh it in my memory, and it's all about the proper way to breathe.

This chapter starts by saying that most men hold in their power.

Have a read of that book, and i- in just the first chapter, it's quite engaging, and you're like, "Oh, shit, okay, so I've been speaking to girls wrong my entire life." That's a great book to start learning this kinda stuff.

And if you wanna take this to the next level, read the book The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.

You learn these relationship skills when you actually have a girlfriend, and you will have such a happier time with her.

I think doing these things alongside your looksmaxing journey is absolutely essential because what you don't want is that you get more attractive, there's girls who are into you, but then they kind of like lose attraction to you because they realize that you're kind of needy and you never even solve that weird psychological desperation that you've- hard for girls because you know you didn't get laid so far and you've been kind of desperate and whatever.

wanted?I mean, it, it, it was a really long time.

I wrote about this yesterday that, um, I- I've talked about, you know, 20 years ago my husband and I went to, uh, a workshop with the, the OG of polarity, masculine-feminine polarity, David Deida.

We went to a workshop-

Oh, you mean the guy that may not be in a relationship and has no kids?