Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter
Jul 14, 2026 · 1 hr 3 min · 18 segments
This week a conversation about Texas tour plans turns into an emotional look at what family can really look like. Becky shares why her Fourth of July weekend with Becks' donor and his family meant…
Kail LowryHost
Becky HayterHost

It was a huge 4th of July party, so, like, all of his extended family, all of his family was at this party.

It was And like I keep saying this, but the only reason it's possible is 'cause like Matt is so loved within his family that like their love for him just poured through into us, into Bex, into like our entire family.

... a baby family, which makes like a huge difference to if you have kids, you know.

A- and like the visual love you could see these people had for our son was just the most incredible feeling, like they would do anything for him.

Like it was, uh, me, Leigh and I were just sitting there the whole time, just the two of us just watching.

And we, like I was like, "This is what like dreams are made of." Like this is literally, like this is like a fam- like how lucky are we that we get now another family that we can build this with and build like, and that Bex has all this love from.

Um, like even his parents, like I thought, right, like there's complexities to our family building.

Like it's real- and I'm not knocking anyone who chooses not to do it the way that you guys have.


It was a huge 4th of July party, so, like, all of his extended family, all of his family was at this party.

It was And like I keep saying this, but the only reason it's possible is 'cause like Matt is so loved within his family that like their love for him just poured through into us, into Bex, into like our entire family.

... a baby family, which makes like a huge difference to if you have kids, you know.

A- and like the visual love you could see these people had for our son was just the most incredible feeling, like they would do anything for him.

Like it was, uh, me, Leigh and I were just sitting there the whole time, just the two of us just watching.

And we, like I was like, "This is what like dreams are made of." Like this is literally, like this is like a fam- like how lucky are we that we get now another family that we can build this with and build like, and that Bex has all this love from.

Um, like even his parents, like I thought, right, like there's complexities to our family building.

Like it's real- and I'm not knocking anyone who chooses not to do it the way that you guys have.
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