May 27, 2026 · 57 min · 10 segments
Today we’re digging into an age-old question along the lines of *has feminism ruined the workplace?* and *has feminism pushed men into the manosphere?* and *did feminism get Trump elected?* We…
It's so loaded, and it's this term that's tossed around so much to insist that, you know, women should stay in bad marriages for the sake of the kids 'cause it's somehow more stable.
Right? Um, but what does stability really mean or look like? So I'm curious, like what does it mean to you now?
Yeah, I mean, well, growing up for me, it basically meant that I had a dad who stuck around.
A dad who was loving and involved and supportive, um, which of course isn't actually dependent on marriage or the nuclear family, but it felt-
... that way growing up from seeing my friends' families and also witnessing the way that my parents talked about those families that split up sometimes because the dad had, you know, a new girlfriend [laughs] or whatever the case was.
Um, and as we've discussed on the pod in the past, like the roving dad always seemed to me as a kid like a threat to family stability.
And marriage was like the promise that a dad would stick around and be invested in his kids.
It was just the three of us, and while my mom was really good at building connections with my broader extended family, while she was really good at, you know, bringing together the, the quote unquote Berkeley family, our chosen family, it did ultimately come down to just us three, which now feels to me like a very unstable table.
You know, I saw my dad regularly as a kid, but we weren't like emotionally close, so-
It's so loaded, and it's this term that's tossed around so much to insist that, you know, women should stay in bad marriages for the sake of the kids 'cause it's somehow more stable.
Right? Um, but what does stability really mean or look like? So I'm curious, like what does it mean to you now?
Yeah, I mean, well, growing up for me, it basically meant that I had a dad who stuck around.
A dad who was loving and involved and supportive, um, which of course isn't actually dependent on marriage or the nuclear family, but it felt-
... that way growing up from seeing my friends' families and also witnessing the way that my parents talked about those families that split up sometimes because the dad had, you know, a new girlfriend [laughs] or whatever the case was.
Um, and as we've discussed on the pod in the past, like the roving dad always seemed to me as a kid like a threat to family stability.
And marriage was like the promise that a dad would stick around and be invested in his kids.
It was just the three of us, and while my mom was really good at building connections with my broader extended family, while she was really good at, you know, bringing together the, the quote unquote Berkeley family, our chosen family, it did ultimately come down to just us three, which now feels to me like a very unstable table.
You know, I saw my dad regularly as a kid, but we weren't like emotionally close, so-
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