Aug 3, 2026 · 45 min · 10 segments
The theme of this week's Am I the A-hole reddit stories is BRIDESMAIDS! Let us know in the comments what you think about these wedding faux pas and if you've ever experienced anything like these…
Dare TaylorHost
When talking about our future weddings, Jane has always expressed that she wants me and a handful of our other closest friends to be her bridesmaids and to have a destination wedding.
When I saw Jane and Brad the day they got engaged, one of the first things Jane said to me was how excited she was for me and our other friends to be her bridesmaids.
Anyways, now that Jane and Brad have started looking at wedding planning, they've decided to have a tiny destination wedding in Colorado and only immediate family will be invited to save money.
They also plan on having a casual party for all the rest of their family and friends after.
But there will be no ceremony or sit down dinner and will be very clearly not a second wedding.
Even though I was disappointed and hurt to hear that I would not be invited to the actual wedding, I understand that it's their right to have whatever kind of wedding they want.
And if it's not important to her that her best friends be there, that's her choice.
When talking about our future weddings, Jane has always expressed that she wants me and a handful of our other closest friends to be her bridesmaids and to have a destination wedding.
When I saw Jane and Brad the day they got engaged, one of the first things Jane said to me was how excited she was for me and our other friends to be her bridesmaids.
Anyways, now that Jane and Brad have started looking at wedding planning, they've decided to have a tiny destination wedding in Colorado and only immediate family will be invited to save money.
They also plan on having a casual party for all the rest of their family and friends after.
But there will be no ceremony or sit down dinner and will be very clearly not a second wedding.
Even though I was disappointed and hurt to hear that I would not be invited to the actual wedding, I understand that it's their right to have whatever kind of wedding they want.
And if it's not important to her that her best friends be there, that's her choice.
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