Breaking Free from Porn, Shame & Sexual Sin ft. Sathiya Sam

So you've coached thousands of men.

I guess my first question is like, you're clearly like an intellect, you're very well spoken.

And you mentioned you worked with high level athletes, high level businessmen.

How can somebody build an eight figure company How can somebody become a high-level professional athlete but not stop watching porn? It's like, in my mind, it's just like, well, it's discipline.

It's discipline, you know? So let's start digging into this.

How can a high-performing man be exceeding expectations, crushing it, et cetera, but struggle so much in this other area?

Yeah, I think I'll answer this question with a story.

I was coaching, he's a starter in the NFL last year.

And, you know, he was doing okay with pornography, but he could tell that it was starting to affect his relationship, even his performance on the field.

Like there were just a couple of things where he could tell it was being a problem and he wanted it out.

So I asked him, when do you watch pornography the most common? Like, when is it the most often for you? And he had this smile on his face.

I could tell it was like, obviously, it's a pretty invasive question.

But I mean, he paid me to work with him.

So I got to ask the questions.

So he's kind of thinking about how to say it.

And he goes, do I have to like, can I be honest with you? And I'm like, well, yeah, you better be honest with me.

You know, you paid a lot of money for the session.

He's like, well, usually it's right before a game.

So I said, okay, so what's your pregame? Like, what does it look like? So, you know, he's like, well, you know, I wake up, eat, some light training.

You know, usually we meet as a team.

We run through the place for the day, whatever, whatever.

We do our warmups.

And then he says, there's always an hour.

There's always about an hour in between where I don't really know what to do.

So typically if we're on the road, I'll go back to my hotel room.