Harry was 29, a 12-year age difference that, particularly given Carol's age, this caused some concern within her family.
But despite family opposition, the relationship continued and developed, and in 1982, Harry and Carol were married.
She was caring and devoted to her children, immersing herself in all aspects of their lives.
He worked as a coach driver, a job that involved traveling long distances and often meant he was away from home for extended periods, leaving Carol to manage the childcare and the family life back home in Bathgate.
But there would be even longer periods when Harry was absent, this time due to his involvement in petty criminality.
He served prison sentences for dishonesty offenses, including embezzlement and fraud.
On one occasion, Harry failed to answer bail, and he was eventually found sleeping in his car at Epping Forest and arrested.
And although he was always trying to get rich and attempted to set up various businesses, he simply didn't have the capital or the ability needed to get them off the ground.
She was responsible, proactive, and her first thoughts were always about her family, and particularly her children, in stark contrast to the way that Harry lived his life.
The old cliche we're always told is that opposites often attract, isn't it? But in this case, their very different personalities would gradually begin to put a real strain on their relationship.
But even so, Carol, who was loyal almost to a fault, remained devoted to her husband and did everything she could to shield the children from his behavior and the problems that he was getting himself into.
Harry was 29, a 12-year age difference that, particularly given Carol's age, this caused some concern within her family.
But despite family opposition, the relationship continued and developed, and in 1982, Harry and Carol were married.
She was caring and devoted to her children, immersing herself in all aspects of their lives.
He worked as a coach driver, a job that involved traveling long distances and often meant he was away from home for extended periods, leaving Carol to manage the childcare and the family life back home in Bathgate.
But there would be even longer periods when Harry was absent, this time due to his involvement in petty criminality.
He served prison sentences for dishonesty offenses, including embezzlement and fraud.
On one occasion, Harry failed to answer bail, and he was eventually found sleeping in his car at Epping Forest and arrested.
And although he was always trying to get rich and attempted to set up various businesses, he simply didn't have the capital or the ability needed to get them off the ground.
She was responsible, proactive, and her first thoughts were always about her family, and particularly her children, in stark contrast to the way that Harry lived his life.
The old cliche we're always told is that opposites often attract, isn't it? But in this case, their very different personalities would gradually begin to put a real strain on their relationship.
But even so, Carol, who was loyal almost to a fault, remained devoted to her husband and did everything she could to shield the children from his behavior and the problems that he was getting himself into.
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