Jul 16, 2026 · 8 min · 8 segments
One of the most common pieces of advice in recovery is simple: don't date during your first year sober. I didn't follow that advice. Five months after leaving rehab, I met the man who would…
Michael PizzuloHost
Welcome to Therapy for Gay Men, a psychology and relationship podcast exploring the hidden emotional patterns shaping modern gay life.

I'm Michael Pizzulo, a licensed therapist and coach, and each week I'll break down the deeper dynamics underneath attraction, sexuality, masculinity, validation, and connection.

What happens when we find out that some of the most common advice we've been given about relationships and finding love just isn't true, or maybe it just doesn't apply to us? Today, this video is going to be a little different.

I want to share with you about my story, finding my relationship and how it really clashed with some advice I've been given for years.
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Welcome to Therapy for Gay Men, a psychology and relationship podcast exploring the hidden emotional patterns shaping modern gay life.

I'm Michael Pizzulo, a licensed therapist and coach, and each week I'll break down the deeper dynamics underneath attraction, sexuality, masculinity, validation, and connection.

What happens when we find out that some of the most common advice we've been given about relationships and finding love just isn't true, or maybe it just doesn't apply to us? Today, this video is going to be a little different.

I want to share with you about my story, finding my relationship and how it really clashed with some advice I've been given for years.