The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Jul 31, 2026 · 1 hr 3 min · 17 segments
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So I'm going to slow things down a little bit because we've been throwing out all these words and stuff and possibly our audience doesn't get them.
So as we go through the show, everybody understands what we're talking about.
And I think if you look up the official definition, it's anything that isn't considered, I think they might even use the word normal, but standard sex.
And if I were to stretch that definition, I would talk about alternative intimacy outside of, again, what is considered standard right
now.
And I think that it's not all, I think when people imagine kink or BDSM, they imagine leather, whips, latex, all sexy things that are definitely fall under kink but it can also just be really plain stuff like a erotic role play where there might be some power exchange like doctor nurse or doctor patient that's kinky and for some people they think they're vanilla doing a little role play but it's not that's kink
some people think swinging is kinky because it's different it's not the traditional relationship
Well, what about a blindfold or handcuffs?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Do you guys consider swinging kinky? We do not, but some people do,
And I don't either because I think that it can be actually some of the most vanilla sex just with a partner you're not married to.
So I'm going to slow things down a little bit because we've been throwing out all these words and stuff and possibly our audience doesn't get them.
So as we go through the show, everybody understands what we're talking about.
And I think if you look up the official definition, it's anything that isn't considered, I think they might even use the word normal, but standard sex.
And if I were to stretch that definition, I would talk about alternative intimacy outside of, again, what is considered standard right
now.
And I think that it's not all, I think when people imagine kink or BDSM, they imagine leather, whips, latex, all sexy things that are definitely fall under kink but it can also just be really plain stuff like a erotic role play where there might be some power exchange like doctor nurse or doctor patient that's kinky and for some people they think they're vanilla doing a little role play but it's not that's kink
some people think swinging is kinky because it's different it's not the traditional relationship
Well, what about a blindfold or handcuffs?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Do you guys consider swinging kinky? We do not, but some people do,
And I don't either because I think that it can be actually some of the most vanilla sex just with a partner you're not married to.
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