The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Jul 3, 2026 · 1 hr 2 min · 13 segments
Have you ever had such a hard break up that it left you feeling embarrassed, ashamed and guilty about how you let this happen to you -- where you found yourself wondering how you will ever trust…
Now it's time for some final advice.
Alana, what would you say could be the top two things that a couple could do to spice up their mundane relationship and enjoy some great sex?
But the idea is to start to make it safe to speak about the unspeakable or to speak about your secret fantasies.
Sometimes we withhold, withhold, withhold, push, right? Or we say it when we've had a little too many drinks and they take it the wrong way.
To set yourself up to win with a safe way An intimate way to speak about your desires is key.
And so simply going back and forth saying, tell me something that you tell me a secret about one of your sexual desires and just share one.
Do this for a good 20, 30 minutes, just sharing one fantasy or one secret about your sexual desires back and forth.
And so once you finish this, you know, 20 or 30 minutes, if you're not already making love, you probably will be too.
Yes.
And the idea that all the partner is going to say is thank you doesn't mean they agree.
Now it's time for some final advice.
Alana, what would you say could be the top two things that a couple could do to spice up their mundane relationship and enjoy some great sex?
But the idea is to start to make it safe to speak about the unspeakable or to speak about your secret fantasies.
Sometimes we withhold, withhold, withhold, push, right? Or we say it when we've had a little too many drinks and they take it the wrong way.
To set yourself up to win with a safe way An intimate way to speak about your desires is key.
And so simply going back and forth saying, tell me something that you tell me a secret about one of your sexual desires and just share one.
Do this for a good 20, 30 minutes, just sharing one fantasy or one secret about your sexual desires back and forth.
And so once you finish this, you know, 20 or 30 minutes, if you're not already making love, you probably will be too.
Yes.
And the idea that all the partner is going to say is thank you doesn't mean they agree.
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