Jul 7, 2026 · 35 min · 11 segments
Kate eats humble pie after criticising Amy's party prep. Sophie's delves into her thoughts on one and done. And we discuss relationship strains, party speech etiquette and baby number 2? The Mums'…
And then I felt like some friends were like, "Oh, we don't really quite know how to deal with her anymore, so we're just not gonna message her." Mm.
I also think it's really important in those first few weeks when your friend has a newborn to just be there, because it can feel really isolating being at home.
Or I think even a message, like, you know, uh, just message and say, "Hey, I just wanted to check in.
How, how's your week going?" It's worse when there's, like, radio silence and you feel like no one cares.
I also think that if you are going over to see your friend, you need to be mindful about how long you spend there, and 'cause every, everyone's different.
I lived for it, and everyone's like, "Do you want me to leave?" I'm like, "No, I'd actually prefer you to stay." But I remember talking to a friend and she was saying that she had a lot of friends who would stay for hours.
She'd have to get up and get them cups of tea, and she almost felt like she was serving them.
Well, the other hard thing is when you're breastfeeding, uh, particularly early on- Yeah ... and you're embarrassed to do it in front of people.
I remember Dale's Poppy and his mum were over and I was like, "Fuck, I've gotta get the breast pumps out," and I'm like, "I just feel weird doing this in front of Dale's- Yeah.
Or, or particularly, like, I used to do it in front of my in-laws, and sometimes they wouldn't know that I was doing it, and then someone's like, "What's that vibrating noise?" And I'm like, "Oh, I'm sorry, it's the breast pump." And they were all so amazed by it.
And then I felt like some friends were like, "Oh, we don't really quite know how to deal with her anymore, so we're just not gonna message her." Mm.
I also think it's really important in those first few weeks when your friend has a newborn to just be there, because it can feel really isolating being at home.
Or I think even a message, like, you know, uh, just message and say, "Hey, I just wanted to check in.
How, how's your week going?" It's worse when there's, like, radio silence and you feel like no one cares.
I also think that if you are going over to see your friend, you need to be mindful about how long you spend there, and 'cause every, everyone's different.
I lived for it, and everyone's like, "Do you want me to leave?" I'm like, "No, I'd actually prefer you to stay." But I remember talking to a friend and she was saying that she had a lot of friends who would stay for hours.
She'd have to get up and get them cups of tea, and she almost felt like she was serving them.
Well, the other hard thing is when you're breastfeeding, uh, particularly early on- Yeah ... and you're embarrassed to do it in front of people.
I remember Dale's Poppy and his mum were over and I was like, "Fuck, I've gotta get the breast pumps out," and I'm like, "I just feel weird doing this in front of Dale's- Yeah.
Or, or particularly, like, I used to do it in front of my in-laws, and sometimes they wouldn't know that I was doing it, and then someone's like, "What's that vibrating noise?" And I'm like, "Oh, I'm sorry, it's the breast pump." And they were all so amazed by it.
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