Sep 26, 2026 · 1 hr 32 min · 24 segments
Do you want to know how to talk to anyone with ease and confidence? In this episode, you will learn science-backed psychological tricks to be more successful, charismatic, and influential today…
Vanessa Van EdwardsGuest... into all of the tools and the research, I mean, you just bring it every time I talk to you.
So why does it matter to either know high achievers or to be one? Like, how does being a high achiever-

I think that what's really crucial is that I've s- spent a career studying these high achievers, and I've noticed that they have very specific behavior patterns and communication patterns.

So they are able to say no more easily to difficult people That is something that I think everyone wants.

So many people, they achieve their goals and have no happiness, no satisfaction, no joy in achieving those goals.

So there's the enjoyment, they're saying n- no to difficult people easily, and it's also, I think that, from, from my perspective, high achievers very clearly are able to know who they are and they're able to share it.
... into all of the tools and the research, I mean, you just bring it every time I talk to you.
So why does it matter to either know high achievers or to be one? Like, how does being a high achiever-

I think that what's really crucial is that I've s- spent a career studying these high achievers, and I've noticed that they have very specific behavior patterns and communication patterns.

So they are able to say no more easily to difficult people That is something that I think everyone wants.

So many people, they achieve their goals and have no happiness, no satisfaction, no joy in achieving those goals.

So there's the enjoyment, they're saying n- no to difficult people easily, and it's also, I think that, from, from my perspective, high achievers very clearly are able to know who they are and they're able to share it.
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