Boundaries, Blue Balls & Being Heard as a Woman with Sex Ed Princess

So speaking of social media platforms, what are some of the, like, common DMs you get from people in terms of, like, "Help, I've got this issue," or, "What do you think of this?" Or like, "How do you squirt?" [laughs] You know, like, what are the common questions that you field?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Oh my God, I've gotten such a range of q- I was getting so many questions in my DMs that I opened up an anonymous question box.

So I was like-

Mm

... "Put your questions here.

I'll look at them when I look at them," um, rather than having, like, 30 DMs, like, sitting in my inbox, and I was like, "I can't do this.

Like, I will go absolutely bananas."

Yeah.

So I started doing that.

Nonetheless, people will still DM me, and I get DMs from, "I'm in this kind of relationship.

Things aren't going the way I want.

What do I do?" Like, relationship advice.

Um, I also get things along the line, the most common question I would say I get as a sex educator both on and offline is, "Am I pregnant?" And that-

Oh

... is the one that is just like, I can't tell you if you're pregnant.

You have to take a test.

Even if you had sex and then you took a Plan B, but you're also on birth control, but then the Plan B was this many hours after, like, I cannot tell you for certain.

I can tell you your chances just about.

I can say, "Hey, based on this information that we have, this medical knowledge, you know, I, I can tell you this," butYeah.

I, i- for anyone listening, if you ask a sex educator, "Am I pregnant?" They will not be able to answer your question.

The only thing that can answer your question is a pregnancy test and, you know, talking to a licensed medical professional.

There's a difference between a licensed medical professional and a sex educator.

Um, you know, they're similar, their, their circles kind of coincide in a lot of ways, but they're not-