Aug 27, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min · 19 segments
Emotional intimacy coach Allana Pratt joins the podcast to discuss psychedelics, kink, and coming home to your body through healing trauma and somatic integration work. **Join the Self-Dom…
Amanda DamesHost
[keyboard clicking] Hey, everyone, and welcome to this week's episode of the Kink Consultant Podcast.
I am joined by Alana Pratt, who is an emotional intimacy coach, and I have invited Alana on today because I am so excited to discuss specifically women's relationship with self at multiple stages of our lives, and how that changes the relationships we are in, both on the kink side, but also just as we all know, kink is about relationship and connection and communication.
How do we keep making sure we are communicating our boundaries, our needs, showing up as our authentic selves, as our authentic selves change through different parts of our life? Alana, thank you so much for joining.
Oh, Amanda, it's great to be here, and I love this conversation because we do change over time.
I was asked yesterday about just, you know, casual sex, and I'm like, "Well, I'm 56 now.
It was very different when I was 26." And so thank you for this deep dive today.
And then I've been single a couple of times in the last 10 years, and I've had casual sex, but nothing like at 26.
Back from Canada, and we're recording this actually on Canada Day, so go Canada.
I quit college after two years, and I headed to LA because I didn't know really what I wanted to do when I grew up, and I did know that I loved dancing.
So I couldn't get a job in the States, didn't have a working visa, moved to Tokyo, and started dancing.
The very first contract was, like, G-strings, and I had never worn a G-string and fishnets ever, and I'm like, "Well, no one's gonna know." By the second contract, it was a topless revue in downtown Tokyo, and I had never done that before.
It was called One Eye Jacks, and all the girls were from the Moulin Rouge or the Lido or Crazy Horse in Paris.
And they taught me so much, that my body is this divine temple, and that I could transform men's attention by breathing in their, like, low vibrational...
[keyboard clicking] Hey, everyone, and welcome to this week's episode of the Kink Consultant Podcast.
I am joined by Alana Pratt, who is an emotional intimacy coach, and I have invited Alana on today because I am so excited to discuss specifically women's relationship with self at multiple stages of our lives, and how that changes the relationships we are in, both on the kink side, but also just as we all know, kink is about relationship and connection and communication.
How do we keep making sure we are communicating our boundaries, our needs, showing up as our authentic selves, as our authentic selves change through different parts of our life? Alana, thank you so much for joining.
Oh, Amanda, it's great to be here, and I love this conversation because we do change over time.
I was asked yesterday about just, you know, casual sex, and I'm like, "Well, I'm 56 now.
It was very different when I was 26." And so thank you for this deep dive today.
And then I've been single a couple of times in the last 10 years, and I've had casual sex, but nothing like at 26.
Back from Canada, and we're recording this actually on Canada Day, so go Canada.
I quit college after two years, and I headed to LA because I didn't know really what I wanted to do when I grew up, and I did know that I loved dancing.
So I couldn't get a job in the States, didn't have a working visa, moved to Tokyo, and started dancing.
The very first contract was, like, G-strings, and I had never worn a G-string and fishnets ever, and I'm like, "Well, no one's gonna know." By the second contract, it was a topless revue in downtown Tokyo, and I had never done that before.
It was called One Eye Jacks, and all the girls were from the Moulin Rouge or the Lido or Crazy Horse in Paris.
And they taught me so much, that my body is this divine temple, and that I could transform men's attention by breathing in their, like, low vibrational...
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