The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers
Oct 19, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min · 11 segments
Divorced men are eight times more likely to die by suicide than women going through the same process. That statistic isn’t just alarming. It’s a warning sign that divorce can become a hidden men’s…
Jude SandvallHost
Baruch HaLeviGuest
And I want to come back to your sweet spot, which is, you know, working with them in the crisis.

And because we've outsourced that as men, you know, whether it's natural or not, doesn't matter.

But I learned a long time ago that I have to go beyond my nature and build community.

And I see that that's part of the downfall of these marriages is when he's leaning too hard on her or exclusively on her for those social connections with the community or with the children.

yeah yeah yeah well that's what that that's what happens is all of a sudden they don't have any of that and i would say more of the men that to your point about being victims come to me because they recognize like i don't i don't have Every reference point for this, I don't know what to do.

So what do I do? Where do I go? Who do I talk to? How does this work out? Like anything, the first time you go through anything, you don't know what to expect.

And most people hopefully don't go through divorce more than once, right? So they're just seeking out and looking for something.

And I will say that the first step of no longer being a victim, because we're all victimized.

And I want to come back to your sweet spot, which is, you know, working with them in the crisis.

And because we've outsourced that as men, you know, whether it's natural or not, doesn't matter.

But I learned a long time ago that I have to go beyond my nature and build community.

And I see that that's part of the downfall of these marriages is when he's leaning too hard on her or exclusively on her for those social connections with the community or with the children.

yeah yeah yeah well that's what that that's what happens is all of a sudden they don't have any of that and i would say more of the men that to your point about being victims come to me because they recognize like i don't i don't have Every reference point for this, I don't know what to do.

So what do I do? Where do I go? Who do I talk to? How does this work out? Like anything, the first time you go through anything, you don't know what to expect.

And most people hopefully don't go through divorce more than once, right? So they're just seeking out and looking for something.

And I will say that the first step of no longer being a victim, because we're all victimized.
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