He Died and Was Brought Back To Life… Here’s What He Learned

I started doing it.

So when you think about that, I like that phraseology.

I think you should use that of of going through that crossroad without self-destructing.

Yeah.

Why do you think when you look at 10 out of 10 people and and they go through some type of crossroads? Do you think the numbers are five of them, self-destructing five of them? Because we could go back in life and look at all these successful people, and you will hear stories of, I was homeless, I slept in a car, this happened to me, and I, boom, turned this way.

And I went on to do something big, right? And then you see all of these people that go the other way.

I mean, what do you think – What do you think? Is it five out of five go one direction and one go the other? This is just estimating here.

But to me, it's like, that's what I'm fascinated by.

Why did you make that decision to not self-destruct? Why did you make that decision? Do you have to hit rock, rock bottom? I'm sure there's various levels to rock bottom.

There's various levels to rock bottom.

I think that to answer the question, I don't know the stat.

I would say it's probably less than five.

I think, and this is all documented data, but from a biological standpoint, we're programmed to be comfortable.

And so a change is going to cause some discomfort.

When it comes down to destruction...

You never know when it's the last time.

So self-destruction is subjective, right? There's different levels to it.

That could mean losing your wife or your husband.

That could mean losing your kids.

That could mean going to jail, losing your job.

So what level do you want to get to before you actually want to change? For many people, when they self-destruct, and you see this in professional sports all the time, Where somebody self-destructs on the field, that was the only skill this person had, was to play ball at a high level.

They bypassed everything else throughout life, and this was their one chance.

You self-destruct and you lose that one skill set that you had or that one opportunity, where do you go from there? So I think you have to really put it into context as far as...

What can I lose if I self-destruct? And what are my opportunities if I

do? Yeah, because people are more motivated by pain than they are potential.