So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?
Jun 28, 2026 · 34 min · 12 segments
What if the key to feeling more confident, connected, and fulfilled isn't doing more, but finding your people? This week, we sit down with entrepreneur and Female Quotient founder Shelley Zallis to…
Shelley ZallisGuest
Susan FeldmanHost
Phyllis BergerHost
You know what, though? The thing I've been thinking a lot about lately is when we keep talking about it, which is why I keep thinking about it, is friendship and community.
I'll tell you what, I think it starts way earlier, actually, learning about community and how important it is.
Because, yes, by this stage of life, you'd think we'd all feel more connected.
though we're all digitally connected and you would think, oh, we're really more connected today than we've ever been, I think it has changed a lot.
And I think you have to just like everything else, you have to change how you're doing and thinking about things.
As we get older, change how you dress, change how you take care of yourself, change how your makeup is, change how you take care of your hair.
Yeah, I think the most powerful thing that happens in your life, and this is about getting older, and I think, again, we do address it a few times, but I think we're going to address it more now, is also you lose the ability for sort of organic connections that you make when your kids are going to school and that kind of thing, or when you're young and you're all working together in the same businesses.
So that's where I think you lose, if you will, the power of the connection of friendships and women and friendships in general.
So when do I? So when do I realize I need my people? Because I really do think there's something powerful, really powerful that happens when women gather together.
And maybe, you know, one of the best parts, I think, of getting older, and there are some good parts of getting older, but you really do realize and embrace the fact that connections actually get deeper, not smaller.
You know what, though? The thing I've been thinking a lot about lately is when we keep talking about it, which is why I keep thinking about it, is friendship and community.
I'll tell you what, I think it starts way earlier, actually, learning about community and how important it is.
Because, yes, by this stage of life, you'd think we'd all feel more connected.
though we're all digitally connected and you would think, oh, we're really more connected today than we've ever been, I think it has changed a lot.
And I think you have to just like everything else, you have to change how you're doing and thinking about things.
As we get older, change how you dress, change how you take care of yourself, change how your makeup is, change how you take care of your hair.
Yeah, I think the most powerful thing that happens in your life, and this is about getting older, and I think, again, we do address it a few times, but I think we're going to address it more now, is also you lose the ability for sort of organic connections that you make when your kids are going to school and that kind of thing, or when you're young and you're all working together in the same businesses.
So that's where I think you lose, if you will, the power of the connection of friendships and women and friendships in general.
So when do I? So when do I realize I need my people? Because I really do think there's something powerful, really powerful that happens when women gather together.
And maybe, you know, one of the best parts, I think, of getting older, and there are some good parts of getting older, but you really do realize and embrace the fact that connections actually get deeper, not smaller.
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