Showing Up Stronger with Sarah Campus
Jun 16, 2026 · 51 min · 17 segments
What happens when the life you’ve built for more than 20 years suddenly falls apart, and you no longer recognise the person staring back at you? In this episode of The Showing Up Stronger Podcast, I…
Sarah CampusHostSo yeah, so in March 2020, I, um, found out my, um, uh, husband had been having an affair for four years, and we'd been together for 22 years, so I, I just had no, I had no idea that it was coming.
Uh, we were about five days off signing a mortgage to, like, renovate the house.
Like, there was no signs that there was any, any chance of the marriage falling apart.
And then COVID came, so it was like, I think it was like the fourth or fifth I found out about the affair.
Um, but yeah, I just, yeah, it was so confusing because everything, my future had sort of been blown up, but also my past, because, because he'd been having this affair for four years, everything I knew or thought had been suddenly really blurred.
Um, so that was really hard and, I guess, my sense of identity, who was I now that I wasn't married, and who was I as a single parent and all amongst it being COVID as well.
So yeah, so in March 2020, I, um, found out my, um, uh, husband had been having an affair for four years, and we'd been together for 22 years, so I, I just had no, I had no idea that it was coming.
Uh, we were about five days off signing a mortgage to, like, renovate the house.
Like, there was no signs that there was any, any chance of the marriage falling apart.
And then COVID came, so it was like, I think it was like the fourth or fifth I found out about the affair.
Um, but yeah, I just, yeah, it was so confusing because everything, my future had sort of been blown up, but also my past, because, because he'd been having this affair for four years, everything I knew or thought had been suddenly really blurred.
Um, so that was really hard and, I guess, my sense of identity, who was I now that I wasn't married, and who was I as a single parent and all amongst it being COVID as well.
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