Aug 21, 2026 · 13 min · 6 segments
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Will CollinsHost
Kevin LehaneHost
It was my father's month's mind, which was the thing, which we discovered that you did not know what a month's mind was.

had never heard of it and i had to ask around and everyone else that i asked knew what it was wow but i asked my mom i said have you heard of a month's point and she she was like no i said at the the first month after a bereavement the family will come together they'll have mass and they'll have and she's like oh yeah yeah they used to do that all right that was a an old tradition thing it's more of a country thing Oh, okay.

How come I've never been to one? Like my family, we're professional funeral goers.

So it's just our family just do not want more excuses to hang out with each other.

I think it's actually a really lovely thing because it's a period after you've had the funeral, you've had the death, you've had the funeral, and you're then kind of like back into the real world.

And it's really disconcerting because like, you know, everything you're experiencing.

And so this is a lovely way for the people who are kind of grieving the most to come back together again and, you know, in memory and just meet and have a cup of tea or a drink and sandwiches and all that sort of stuff.

So for us, it was like all the aunts and uncles and cousins and friends and neighbors and stuff like that.

It was my father's month's mind, which was the thing, which we discovered that you did not know what a month's mind was.

had never heard of it and i had to ask around and everyone else that i asked knew what it was wow but i asked my mom i said have you heard of a month's point and she she was like no i said at the the first month after a bereavement the family will come together they'll have mass and they'll have and she's like oh yeah yeah they used to do that all right that was a an old tradition thing it's more of a country thing Oh, okay.

How come I've never been to one? Like my family, we're professional funeral goers.

So it's just our family just do not want more excuses to hang out with each other.

I think it's actually a really lovely thing because it's a period after you've had the funeral, you've had the death, you've had the funeral, and you're then kind of like back into the real world.

And it's really disconcerting because like, you know, everything you're experiencing.

And so this is a lovely way for the people who are kind of grieving the most to come back together again and, you know, in memory and just meet and have a cup of tea or a drink and sandwiches and all that sort of stuff.

So for us, it was like all the aunts and uncles and cousins and friends and neighbors and stuff like that.
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