Aug 20, 2026 · 46 min · 13 segments
The conversation covers a range of topics, including personal growth, relationships, mental health, and communication. Dr. Victoria Vaughn shares her inspiration for writing the book and discusses the…
Victoria VaughnGuestYeah, exactly.
Yeah.
I think it's awesome too.
I think it's great.
I do.
I did use the dating sites.
It's how I met my, my now future ex-wife.
The only reason we split up was just because we had differences.
It really, really came down to, like, we had a real honest conversation.
She said what she said.
I didn't agree with her.
That's it.
We mutually just basically split up because I was just like, "You know what? It doesn't work out for us.
Let's just go our own ways." Other than that, wasn't really a bad person per se.
She just had a different thought process than I did, you know? And, and that's the way you should go about it, instead of, "Well, they're a douche." This, unless they were actually this person, I feel like a lot of people act out of emotion alone.
They get mad, and they just, they start talking nasty about people.
It's just like, if they're not your person, it's just like, like going to find a therapist.
You gotta go through many different ones to figure out what works best for you.
But, you know.
And it's, and, you know, then you hear the thing of, "Oh, well, you have, you have too high standards." No, it's what they want.
Okay, well, let them have those high standards, 'cause that's what they want.
All right? You know, if they, they make compromises eventually, that's up to them.
You know what I'm saying? Like, everybody always has an opinion about everything you're doing.
Yeah, exactly.
Yeah.
I think it's awesome too.
I think it's great.
I do.
I did use the dating sites.
It's how I met my, my now future ex-wife.
The only reason we split up was just because we had differences.
It really, really came down to, like, we had a real honest conversation.
She said what she said.
I didn't agree with her.
That's it.
We mutually just basically split up because I was just like, "You know what? It doesn't work out for us.
Let's just go our own ways." Other than that, wasn't really a bad person per se.
She just had a different thought process than I did, you know? And, and that's the way you should go about it, instead of, "Well, they're a douche." This, unless they were actually this person, I feel like a lot of people act out of emotion alone.
They get mad, and they just, they start talking nasty about people.
It's just like, if they're not your person, it's just like, like going to find a therapist.
You gotta go through many different ones to figure out what works best for you.
But, you know.
And it's, and, you know, then you hear the thing of, "Oh, well, you have, you have too high standards." No, it's what they want.
Okay, well, let them have those high standards, 'cause that's what they want.
All right? You know, if they, they make compromises eventually, that's up to them.
You know what I'm saying? Like, everybody always has an opinion about everything you're doing.
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