Overthinkers Anonymous by Zikoko
Oct 24, 2026 · 1 hr 40 min · 17 segments
In this episode, we question how men and women are often trained, permitted, and expected to express love differently, and what happens when two people are trying to build an equal relationship while…
Deji OsikoyaHost
Osato EdokpayiHost
And for somebody who loves love as much as I do, I feel like I go back and forth on how, like, I view it.

Do you know why? Why? it scares me because it's essentially giving somebody permission to break your heart, to deal with you.

And I was thinking recently about, the first time that I would say that I was probably in love with someone and that I got those types of feelings.

Like long? I think so, because I counted as one of the only four or five relationships I've had Because, yeah.

And for somebody who loves love as much as I do, I feel like I go back and forth on how, like, I view it.

Do you know why? Why? it scares me because it's essentially giving somebody permission to break your heart, to deal with you.

And I was thinking recently about, the first time that I would say that I was probably in love with someone and that I got those types of feelings.

Like long? I think so, because I counted as one of the only four or five relationships I've had Because, yeah.
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