Sex clubs, swinging, consent & your questions | Live stream replay

I know they have blurred faces, but my friends' stories on this channel are so potent as well, right? We all have our own journey, and I'm, I'm only one girl.

I'm, I'm, I'm a girl who started at the age of 34, um, as a single woman unicorn.

I was looking for couples, and I joined the lifestyle so fucking nervous, unsure.

Okay, so what I would be brand new, and I would be in Oasis Aqualounge sex club.

'Cause before...

Uh, uh, the first year, I only went to Oasis.

I didn't even know about the other clubs.

And so when I was new, I would sit there, and I would have this, like, arms crossed, resting bitch face look, and I would sit there wondering why people didn't talk to me, even though I was actually terrified of people talking to me.

So, uh, it's just one of those things where I really did come into my own and get comfortable in my own skin literally, um, after, you know, going through the lifestyle for a little bit of time.

And so it's really cool to see that.

Sure, it is.

I've got lots of stories and, and, you know, journeys to share, um, or experiences on my journey to share, but my friends do too.

And that's the thing is my...

Some of my friends are wild as fuck, okay? Like, I blush thinking about some of these things that these girls do, okay? And so it's really cool to show that, um...

Like, like, just to be honest, I'm like the prude of my friends, okay? And yet to my vanilla world people, I'm as extreme as they come.

And so I'm like, "No, no, no, honey.

The rabbit hole goes real, real deep." Uh, so it's just something, um, that I thought was funny is some of my friends, their stories, you know, I just...

I also live vicariously through them because I'll never have experiences the same way they do, right? Like, I also don't even have the fantasy of, uh, of being partic- uh, of being a participant like a DTF queen.

I, I don't have, uh, hookups with strangers.

It's something about my demisexual side that I just don't do.

I don't have any desire to have, to have a hookup with somebody I don't know.

So for me, part of the fun of play and swinging is making friends, right? Non-romantic relationships that you maybe hang out and have dinner and then hook up, okay [chuckles]? So, like, that's like my kind of vibe.

So my friends, as I've learned in the club lifestyle, not everybody needs that.

Some people don't even know... need to know your name, and not only that, they don't wanna know your name half the time in the club, okay? So I've seen some stuff.

My eyes are wide.