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I mean, introduce me to one person that likes to hear the word "no." But if you're a silver lining kind of girly like me, then you can understand how rejection is character building.
It teaches you how to get back out there with your head held high and to try again.
We can feel rejection in work, play, love, and the more feelings you have invested, the harder that rejection hits.
Picking their head up and getting back out there just doesn't seem like an option.
And when a rejection like that happens to the wrong person, it can be weaponized and become a death sentence.
So let's turn back the clock to the year 1992, to a little town with a population of only about 4,000 people called West Liberty, Iowa.
The kind of town a lot of people live and then die in, and as was the case for 22-year-old Cory Wienke Now, Cory had a larger-than-life presence in the small town of West Liberty.
Cory especially, though, because not only was he a star football player, he was the class clown and one of the most popular kids in high school.
With his welcoming and warm personality, he just wanted to bring everyone together.
He would invite all the neighborhood kids over to his family's house to play baseball in their giant grassy yard on a summer's night, teach them how to pitch and catch.
And when the sun went down, he was curling up on the couch with his mom, Susan, sharing their favorite shows together.
Now, Susan has said that the two of them, her and her son Cory, were extremely close, even when Cory began dating his high school sweetheart, a girl named Jodie Hotz.
Our sources for this episode are oxygen.com, nbc4i.com, dailymail.co.uk, wqad.com, radioiowa.com, cbs2iowa.com, thegazette.com, timesrepublican.com, iowacourts.com, nbcnews.com, timesdelphic.com, iowabar.org, caselaw.findlaw.com, desmoinesregister.com, and Oxygen Snapped.
I mean, introduce me to one person that likes to hear the word "no." But if you're a silver lining kind of girly like me, then you can understand how rejection is character building.
It teaches you how to get back out there with your head held high and to try again.
We can feel rejection in work, play, love, and the more feelings you have invested, the harder that rejection hits.
Picking their head up and getting back out there just doesn't seem like an option.
And when a rejection like that happens to the wrong person, it can be weaponized and become a death sentence.
So let's turn back the clock to the year 1992, to a little town with a population of only about 4,000 people called West Liberty, Iowa.
The kind of town a lot of people live and then die in, and as was the case for 22-year-old Cory Wienke Now, Cory had a larger-than-life presence in the small town of West Liberty.
Cory especially, though, because not only was he a star football player, he was the class clown and one of the most popular kids in high school.
With his welcoming and warm personality, he just wanted to bring everyone together.
He would invite all the neighborhood kids over to his family's house to play baseball in their giant grassy yard on a summer's night, teach them how to pitch and catch.
And when the sun went down, he was curling up on the couch with his mom, Susan, sharing their favorite shows together.
Now, Susan has said that the two of them, her and her son Cory, were extremely close, even when Cory began dating his high school sweetheart, a girl named Jodie Hotz.
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