Jun 16, 2026 · 20 min · 12 segments
Proxemics is an overlooked tool in persuasion. When you understand how to use the space between you and another person, you create instant trust, lower resistance, and dramatically increase your…
Kerr BoyntonHost
Have you ever met someone and instantly connected? Met other people like, oh, I need a shower.

We need to talk about proxemic space, building that rapport, interpersonal distance.

Hey, do you know when to sit, how to sit, when not to sit, how to stand? Standing or sitting in the wrong spot could be costing you the deal.
Let's do
Maximize your influence.
Kurt Mortensen is the author of Persuasion IQ, Laws of Charisma, and the bestselling book, Maximum Influence.

Welcome to podcast 602, Kerr Boynton here for Maximize Your Influence, where we take that deep dive into persuasion, motivation, influence, self-persuasion, or that success mindset.

You know, the things we should have learned a long time ago that makes a big difference in your life and the things that you're able to accomplish.

Hope you're achieving your goals, making things happen, adding those influence tools to your toolbox, learning to become better negotiators.
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Have you ever met someone and instantly connected? Met other people like, oh, I need a shower.

We need to talk about proxemic space, building that rapport, interpersonal distance.

Hey, do you know when to sit, how to sit, when not to sit, how to stand? Standing or sitting in the wrong spot could be costing you the deal.
Let's do
Maximize your influence.
Kurt Mortensen is the author of Persuasion IQ, Laws of Charisma, and the bestselling book, Maximum Influence.

Welcome to podcast 602, Kerr Boynton here for Maximize Your Influence, where we take that deep dive into persuasion, motivation, influence, self-persuasion, or that success mindset.

You know, the things we should have learned a long time ago that makes a big difference in your life and the things that you're able to accomplish.

Hope you're achieving your goals, making things happen, adding those influence tools to your toolbox, learning to become better negotiators.