Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter
Sep 15, 2026 · 1 hr 6 min · 21 segments
With Kail recovering from her tonsillectomy, longtime friend Sterling joins Becky as guest co-host for a hilarious, surprisingly heartfelt catch-up. Sterling opens up about her 70+ pound weight loss…
Sterling M. BlackGuest
Becky HayterHost
And I think that there's such a perception, like they're like, oh, don't have a child young because you're not ready.

I don't think that no matter what age you are, you understand or you're actually ready.

And you might think you have an idea, but then once you actually have, you bring home that newborn baby, you're like, oh, now what? Like, oh my gosh, like I live in your living, breathing, sleeping, thinking your whole world just shifts from like being pretty selfish and within yourself and like only worrying about yourself to now.

Like, have I fed them enough today? Are they, oh my gosh, there's like a little red spot on their, on their leg.

Like, do I need to take like the, especially your firstborn, you're like a hypochondriac, truly.

You're just like everything you, everything they do, you're like worried that something's going to happen to them.

You think if they are playing outside, they're going to trip over a rock and bust their head open and die.

Like you think about these things that are just so outrageous that are probably not going to happen.

And I think that there's such a perception, like they're like, oh, don't have a child young because you're not ready.

I don't think that no matter what age you are, you understand or you're actually ready.

And you might think you have an idea, but then once you actually have, you bring home that newborn baby, you're like, oh, now what? Like, oh my gosh, like I live in your living, breathing, sleeping, thinking your whole world just shifts from like being pretty selfish and within yourself and like only worrying about yourself to now.

Like, have I fed them enough today? Are they, oh my gosh, there's like a little red spot on their, on their leg.

Like, do I need to take like the, especially your firstborn, you're like a hypochondriac, truly.

You're just like everything you, everything they do, you're like worried that something's going to happen to them.

You think if they are playing outside, they're going to trip over a rock and bust their head open and die.

Like you think about these things that are just so outrageous that are probably not going to happen.
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